well what im looking for im looking for a guy who will want to be my best friend i do have kids you dont have to want kids but you will have to accepct that i have kids they are not leaving anytime soon and im not looking for you to be the father of my kids im looking for my soulmate so please all i ask is dont automatically think you will have to support my kids i do a perfect job on my own but i do ask that you are good with kids i did have a sever accident last year not sure how i survived and walked away but wasnt my time i want someone who likes to go for a long walk once in a while skating or just anything other then sitting in front of a computer all day playing video games not much fun for me to watch so if you like wat you hear give me a shout
and if you smoke that is ok with me as i am an ex smoker and i have dated smokers the smoke doesnt bother me a bit

i think first date will be whatever they choose to be or something for the moment