I'm brutally honest and I strive to be a good person, but that doesn't mean I'm a prude. I'm very easy going meaning I can have fun doing anything. I'm attracted to intelligence and a great sense of humor because those are qualities I value in myself. My interests are extremely varied and sometimes I can be random which can be really, really fun, or very annoying to a person that needs everything planned. I try to live life to its fullest because this lifetime is too short to be miserable. Anything else? Just ask, I'm an awesome conversationalist! :)

Ok...I've decided to revise this thing yet again. Maybe elaborate on some things I'm tired of answering over and over...I'll be shocked if the following is actually fully read so I won't hold it against you, but will call you out on it if you ask me a question that I've already answered.

First of all, I'll give you a nutshell about my story... I'm soon to be divorced from my husband that I've been with the majority of my adult life. I gave up my dreams and my schooling to insure that he had the life he dreamed of and wanted. Two years, after I found out about his multiple indescrepancies, I finally left after exhausting efforts of trying to make things work. I left with very little and have asked nothing of him so I'm starting from scratch. I will be starting school soon to finish at least one of the six degrees I have started in order to graduate and begin MY life. I don't have much drama and what drama I do have I generally keep others out of. My ex is no longer an issue in my life.

What am I looking for? LOL I have no idea. I moved back to Indiana to find all my childhood friends really changed and involved with their own lives so initially I just want to meet new people. Right now the thought of marriage, kind of makes my stomach turn, but you never know what someone else will be able to bring to your life. I'd just like to find someone I enjoy being around and see where it goes and if it's just not there at least I made a new friend. I'm very warm hearted and affectionate, but I want so much more than just sex. So I guess if you are looking for just sex, PLEASE just keep going. I have to also ask, if you are emotionally unavailable, completely detatched from any feelings what-so-ever, or are very bitter towards all women in general, again, just leave me alone. I've been to hell and back, but I still believe that love is the greatest gift this life has.

I'm very easy going and usually up for anything. I'm always asked what I like to do, and I really have thought about this question because I usually just do whatever someone else wants because I enjoy the company of them more than the activity. So here's a little about ME.

I grew up in the country but have lived in a major city for a better part of the last decade. This means I can be just as content hanging by a campfire or going to a fine restuarant and the theater.

I can't kill another living creature or see one die without it truly upsetting me. I have a hard time killing even spiders. I do kill mosquitos because they suck my blood and that's just self defense. So for the woodsie guys I would make a lousy fishing and/or hunting partner. I don't mind going fishing as long as it on a boat and I can read a book and be occupied by something other than the slaughter of innocent creatures. I'll even clean the fish when it's over as long as someone else kills it and I don't have to see. However, for the hunting guy I'm so not your girl. I get the concept that there's an environmental need for hunting, I just can't see a picture of your lastest trophy nor do I want to hear your hunting stories...I just can't do it.

I'm a bit of a thrill seeker. I love amusement parks. I like fast vehicles. I love to go four-wheeling. I loved cliff diving and bungee jumping, though I'm not sure I'm as dumb as I was back then. I would love to go skydiving, that would be awesome!

I LOVE water. I love being in, on, or around water. I like to go kayaking. canoeing, and white water rafting. I love float trips. This is so not an Indiana thing, but would make for a fun road trip! Ok, basically if the activity has something to do with water, I'm IN!

I hate winter, and I avoid going outside when it's cold at all costs. However if the temperature outside is over 55 degrees, I'm outside in it!

I like to go out and have fun, but I also love curling up to a great movie. I don't really watch alot of TV, I prefer to listen to music. I literally enjoy a song in just about all genres. I gravitate mostly towards loud hard rock, but I love a great country song too. I like to dance, though I think I'm terrible at it, so I like music I can dance to as well. I love concerts and watching live bands.

So if you actually read all this, and didn't doze off a few times, I guess you get a couple of points in my book. :) Message me, I'm always up for at least for an interesting conversation!

Meet for drinks to see if we can tolerate each other....lol I'm open, this isn't a job interview, lets just have some fun! :)