OK, If you got this far then it was the headline that got your attention. Yes I am looking for my Queen to spoil, but let me go back a bit and tell you a little about me Im African American as you can see by the pic I love to work out and take care of myself.Im 5'11"tall 245 pounds. As far as personality I decided to put all my cards on the table and see what happens Im divorced have been for several years now it was bitter to say the least but Ive moved on Im really laid back not lazy at all I love to take walks run sports you name it I simply love the outdoors I am perusing my masters in computer engineering here in Denver so thats what brings me here I retired as a chef after 18 years felt it was time for a change I was classically trained in Europe and have been the executive chef for several large country clubs I lived in Europe for 10 years and in this time I got my first degree in music so I do play several instruments and my second degree was in culinary arts so ladies I can cook as well :-) I would really like to find a woman that I can spoil and she return the favor as well Im looking for a special woman and I wont go into too much detail here but if you get to this point and are still interested then I will elaborate for you but first off Im looking for a woman height and weight proportionate around 5'6" or taller if you are shorter dont let that scare you off im not that shallow but as far as personality goes I may be reaching for the stars but my father always told me shoot for the moon if you miss you will at least be around the stars and that ain't bad:-) I want a woman thats even tempered not moody all the time hate that because im not moody now Im sure everyone has their times but when its all the time please help your self and go get help or some sort of medicine I want some one that's TOTALLY OPEN MINDED !!!!! dont say you are and then find out you really arent because after living in europe for so long Ive found that tolerance and the ability to adapt will make you much happier in life I need some one that when they tell me something they mean it and will do what ever it takes to back it up you word is your word what you show me at first should be who you really are not do a 180 flip on me after 3months or 6 months of dating as far as me what you see is what you get I dont like couch potatoes so if you like to lay on the couch more then get outside then thats not for me as well some one that takes care of their body i mean if you have a little here and there but are really working on it not simply saying im working on it then thats cool i respect that and love that drive and determination also someone thats NOT A SLOB my gosh the last relationship I was in she told me she was neat and clean and well that was not the truth now im not a clean freak but i cant stand to trip over clothes all over the house and stuff thats CRAZY !!! but we all let things go from time to time but normal people dont for weeks on end any way Im ranting but I guess this is what i meant by putting all my cards on the table as far as intimacy if youve gotten this far I will assure you that you wont ever be let down in that department EVER :-) but if you are timid STOP HERE !!! save yourself some time and go on to another profile all i ask from that person is to be totally open minded ,uninhibited and have a wild side . Im sorry if I shocked you but I am blunt I try to be that way because it lets people know where they stand Im not mean by any means I do try to use tact at all times but I dont want to lie to you or anyone else its too hard to remember a lie and a lot easier to remember the truth I'm wanting a best friend, some one I can tell anything and he tell me anything. I feel that is the core and base to a lasting relationship, and thats what we are all looking for or we wouldnt be on here :-)

I would like to simply talk get to know that person and if the moonlight is just right a slow passionate dance in a park to a song on the radio. I want someone that is as passionate as I about life. able to have an intelligent conversation as well as be goofy so if you think this is you email me.