I am trying to figure out why. I know I am a strong woman and that scares many men. But I will always defer to you when out on the town or wait for you to open the door. I know I am not the thinnest woman around, but not huge by any means. I know I am opinionated, but will always listen to yours with respect.

I am very loyal and give all I have to a relationship but never seem to get the same back. I agree to the fact there has to be a mutal attraction for anything to happen, so I tend to be a little picky. In a typical female fashion I am looking for a knight in shining armor to sweep me off my feet. I have a weakness for a man in uniform so if you are lucky enough to wear one, my knees will go weak.

I am a single mom of a bright and creative young man. I do not look or act my age. I am starting out on a new quest to follow my dream of being a photgrapher. I want it to be my name that people say when they are commenting on the cover of Vouge, Time or People. I am also going to school so I can finally become a teacher.

I focus my life and energy on being a good person, giving what I can to others and a good mother, guiding my son on the right path.

Eventually will share my life with someone again, when it is right, but had not realised it would take this long. But for know I follow the my heart and let life lead the way.

I will have to be honest, I am not attracted to black men so I do not want to waste anyones time.

Also if all you want is a hook up or fwb, take a hike.

Anything really, just no jumping out of perfectly good planes. I like the beach, quiet resturants, bowling, fairs/carnivals, tiki bars...as long as we can talk and get to know each other.