What I am looking for:
do you spend your time with the boys, and leave your lady at home, won't help with the cooking even if it is a candle light dinner for two, believe that laundry, housework etc are a woman's job. Treat your lady like a door mat? Believe letting her pick up the case of beer at the beer store is romantic, flowers are a waste of money, and that the words I love you are over rated, get in touch with me (NOT)

I have tried the serious profiles, and well being forward, honest and upfront doesn't seem to work. Maybe this will. Who knows. Got your attention though!!!!



Now you can see what I am looking for and a littl bit about me.

I can tell you what I am not....Barbie, rich, or speak several languages,I don't have long flowing hair either... I have however bettered myself by continuing my education. I have my own business and work full time if you like check it out http://www.facebook.com/l/;www.greatcareerplan.com/?dnormore I am NOT looking for a father for my children they have one already, but I am looking for that one person who is the passion in my life. I have been on my own for 8+ years by choice and it is time to move forward.


This is a total description of what I am looking for, "Size Matters" by Joe Nichols
I already have the dog, the house, and all it's upkeep, the children, and the vehicle. All that is missing is that someone to share it with.
To all the men who believe because a woman has been single for some time is game for being rude, inconsiderate and to assume that I am a desperate lonely person......WRONG, I am very independant (scares alot of men) direct and very motivated for successes in every avenue of my life. Unfortunately these "qualities" are not readily recognized by men as being an asset. I am not a door mat or a personal slave (sex or otherwise) so if you still want to get in touch with me email me, Happy fishing and as far as I am concerned I have alot to offer too bad that isn't recognized!!!! It is my sincere hope to be off of here and in a relationship very soon. I don't want to spend another winter with the electric blanket LOL!!!!

first date, lets face it, walks on the beach, concerts etc on a first date are way too assuming. I live in Kitchener, so to expect a person to go all the way to a beach on a first date without really knowing someone is a little unrealistic!! there is no such thing as a perfect first date anyway, only perfect seconds. Perhaps a nice wine, great conversation. Not much into movies, no conversation during those. As long as there is mutual respect and consideration for each others likes and dislikes.