As there seems to be some confusion with my profile and status... I'm in a relationship with someone at this time (November 2008) so am not looking. I'm here for the forums (as I have been essentially since I joined) and he knows all about my activities and contacts... we have full disclosure and an open, honest relationship. Friends are welcome...

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I recently cleaned out my *who loves me* list... deleting all those that have added me but have never contacted me. If you are going to add me, the least you can do is send me a message!!! I don't bite.. hard... *beg*

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"You attract more flies with honey..."

I have big green eyes and a big smile and can be kind of saucy when the mood strikes. I am not as good as you think, or as bad as I want to be... Drop me a line and let me know something about you.

I love sitting at home reading a good book, or going out and enjoying just about anything... haven't had much time to do that recently tho.

I am looking for someone who can look beyond the outside of a person, deep into the heart and soul to find something attractive. I am a single mom with two very energetic boys, which leaves me with very little time to get out and meet people so I thought I would give this a shot.

If you are married or looking for a quick lay, keep looking. I've been in a committed relationship for a long time and have come to value a lot of things... honesty, respect, monogamy. I am self-sufficient, independant, intelligent (I'd like to think so anyway!!), and know how to do many things for myself. I do not need to have a man in my life, but a girl can only watch so many chick flicks before she gets bored from a lack of testosterone...

If you are interested in chatting, send me a note and we'll go from there.

**Guess I have to add this - if you send me a message, please be patient for a reply. I might read it quickly, but sometimes responding might take a little bit of thought, especially if you've given me something to think about.**

So after adding a reply to a post in the forums about women and cars, I thought I should add a pic of my first love. She's no longer a part of my life, but I would trade just about anything I owned to get her back. Oh.. the stories she could tell if you knew the right questions to ask... *sigh*

I can tell you what I enjoyed as a first date... nice dinner, walk through the ice sculptures at night, movie... has been the best date I've had so far.