"Isn't attraction incredible? Imagine relaxing into strong arms holding you, feeling safe and appreciated and intimate, knowing you're exactly where you belong... I'm educated, successful, emotionally mature, and I know what I want. My work keeps me busy, but I make time for travel, dining out, music (very diverse tastes), practice judo, ta-wen-do, work out and anything new and interesting. I'm tall, in average shape, with black eyes and dark wavy hair . I am a realistic and romantic, if there is such a thing. I believe someone is out there who can actually be faithful and loving without having to be forced or caged to do so. Looking to meet someone who's smart, honest, and loves to laugh. Now tell me all about you..."

I dont think you can really determine a "when & where" until you've had a chance to talk
to one another and get a feel for how that person is. its not what you do or where you do it, but who your doing it with, that really matters.