I'M DIVORCED WITH ITALIAN HERITAGE AND NOW A SINGLE DAD OF THREE CHILDREN(PART-TIME). THEY ARE MY PRIORITY FIRST AND FOREMOST,AND I BELIEVE THAT FAMILY SHOULD ALWAYS COME FIRST . I REMEMBER THAT STEPPENWOLF CLASSIC "BORN TO BE WILD" HITCHING FOR THE RUNNING, HEADING ON THE HIGHWAY, LOOKING FOR ADVENTURE IN WHATEVER COMES OUR WAY. IN SHORT.... LIFE WILL EITHER BE AN ADVENTURE OR IT WILL BE NOTHING AT ALL....I HAVE CHOSEN TO BE ON THE ADVENTURE PATH.....SOOOOO TURN ME LOOSE.... I'M 5'11 APPROX 205LBS,DARK BROWN HAIR (WHAT EVER IS LEFT OF IT...LOL),HAZEL EYES ,NOT HARD TO LOOK AT. BEING FIT WITH A HEALTHY LIFESTYLE, I JOINED THE RANKS OF THE KINGSTON POLICE COMMUNITY VOLUNTEERS THIS PAST JANUARY/09 AND LOVE IT IT HAS BEEN AN EDUCATION..... I WORK OUT AT THE GYM REGULARLY,RUN,CYCLE,WEIGHT LIFT,AND INTO MARTIAL ARTS. I LIKE TO PLAY SPORTS VOLLEYBALL BEING MY MAIN SPORT,LIKE TO GO TO MOVIES AND DINNER OUT FROM TIME TO TIME,BUT ALSO LIKE MY SOLITUDE AND STAY HOME AND KICK BACK AND DO ABSOLUTELY ZIP... AND WATCH HOME RENOS AND HOUSE FLIPPING ON HGTV...: I AM LOOKING FOR A WOMAN WHO IS INTELLIGENT,FUNNY,LAID BACK,EASY GOING,CARING,HONEST AND RESPECTFUL. RIGHT NOW I AM LOOKING FOR FRIENDSHIP FIRST,TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND THEN SEE WHERE IT WILL LEAD......I AM NOT AFRAID TO COMMIT TO A RELATIONSHIP WHEN THE TIME COMES, I AM ALONE BUT NOT LONELY AND DEFINITELY NOT DESPERATE OR IN A RUSH,BASICALLY I WALK THE WALK AND WALK THE TALK...LOL.... IT'S ABOUT TAKING RISKS,ISN'T THAT WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.......... ....PLEASE HAVE A CURRENT PICTURE OF YOURSELF, MINE IS CURRENT AND OF ME!!!.....CIAO

Strategic Dictionary for Men:

This is a strategic Dictionary for Men to keep close at hand. If you have a good working knowledge of these WORDS WOMEN USE, you (men) have a better than average chance of actually surviving a negative encounter

FINE -- This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks - this will cause you to have one of those arguments.

FIVE MINUTES -- This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade.

NOTHING -- This means "something," and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. "Nothing" usually signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with "Fine"

GO AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows!) -- This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over "Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine"

GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows) -- This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care" You will get a "Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.

LOUD SIGH -- This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment, and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing"

SOFT SIGH -- Again, not a word, but a non-verbal statement. "Soft Sighs" mean that she is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.

THAT'S OKAY -- This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you back for whatever it is that you have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and in conjunction with a "Raised Eyebrow." GO AHEAD! At some point in the near future, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble.

PLEASE DO -- This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance with the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a "That's Okay"

THANKS -- A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just say you're welcome.

THANKS A LOT -- This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have offended her in some callous way, and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh" Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing"

WE NEED TO TALK -- The most dreaded four words a woman can say Because of something you did (or didn't) do; Because of something you said (or didn't) say; You have landed yourself in do-do deep! Prepare yourself for this talk. Practice your "I'm sorry," "Please forgive me," "It won't happen again" lines. These may be your only contributions to the 'TALK.'

Oh, you really think you are the boss? -- Be prepared for a crash course in the other 12 terms on this list. A couple of questions: Have you signed your organ donor card? Do you prefer Cremation or Burial?

This is just some quotes that I found , just written for humour do not take it the wrong way please!

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WOMEN'S ENGLISH:
1. Yes = No
2. No = Yes
3. Maybe = No
4. We need = I want
5. I am sorry = You'll be sorry
6. We need to talk = You're in trouble
7. Sure, go ahead = You better not
8. Do what you want = You will pay for this later
9. I am not upset = Of course, I am upset, you moron!
10. You're certainly attentive tonight = Is sex all you ever think about?

MEN'S ENGLISH:
1. I am hungry = I am hungry
2. I am sleepy = I am sleepy
3. I am tired = I am tired
4. Nice dress = Nice cleavage!
5 I love you = Let's have sex now
6. I am bored = Do you want to have sex?
7. May I have this dance? = I'd like to have sex with you.
8. Can I call you sometime? = I'd like to have sex with you.
9. Do you want to go to a movie? = I'd like to have sex with you.
10. Can I take you out to dinner? = I'd like to have sex with you.
11. I don't think those shoes go with that outfit = He's a fag
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FACTS ON WOMEN OVER 40
A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, "What are you thinking?" If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting. Women over 40 are dignified. They don't have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restauran

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