i really dont know how to say what i want to say. ever had that problem? i'll keep it simple.. i used to bartend downtown chicago and partied as hard as i worked. one day it all caught up with me and i quit. now i'm a roofer and alcohol/drug free. sometimes its better and sometimes it's boring and it sucks. but i always know how i got home, i never wake up trying to remember what happened, and there's no trouble in my life. the thing that sucks is that because i dont drink that means i don't go to bars and thats a huge social window that i decided to close. and even things like this are kinda tough because most people on here post pictures of them drinking. because i stopped doesn't mean the rest of the world did and i understand that but if thats the only thing you like to do then we probably wont get along. nothing personal, i'm sure you're a great person, just not great for me. i try to stay goal driven these days and once one is met i set another one. i'm not your typical any kind of guy and i'm pretty proud of that. i'm alot of fun and a great friend and at this point that's what i am looking for.. someone to be friends with. after that whatever's supposed to happen will happen. if you're sick of guys always being on some booty call type of attitude i would be a breath of fresh air. if you want me to take a picture of my abs in the mirror and send it to you then again, i'm sure you're great, but not for me. and by the way, i have great abs, i'm just not an internet stud.






I saw this on someone else's profile and I thought it was freakin hilarious:

I want to live my next life backwards: You start out dead and get that
out of the way.
Then you wake up in an old age home feeling better every
day.
Then you get kicked out for being too healthy. Enjoy your retirement
and collect your pension.
Then when you start work, you get a gold watch on your first day. You work 40 years until you're too young to work.
You get ready for High School: drink alcohol, part y, and you're generally
promiscuous. Then you go to primary school, you become a kid, you play,
and you have no responsibilities.
Then you become a baby, and then... You spend your last 9 months floating peacefully in luxury, in spa-like conditions - central heating, room service on tap, and then... You finish off as an orgasm.

first dates are soo fun because they're kinda nerve racking. so i'd choose something simple but fun. and of course i'm always open to suggestions....