Hi there.. Thanks for stopping by..
I am an easy going guy hoping to make that special connection..Tired of the single life,have a clear head and a good idea of where i am heading,not looking back.Looking for a lady who doesn,t mind being pampered a little and likes give as well as recieve, i am generous to a fault sometimes.. Someone who looks after herself and makes me proud to be with her..

I wrote a poem recently that i would like to share with you.
Some of you may like it, some may think i,m wacked, but Hey! tell me
something i didn,t already know..ahha...

The elusive mystery

When we are young and so carefree
not yet knowing how the world can be

Boys and girls playing silly games
So carefree no one to blame

When we hit our teens things will change
A different game oh sooo strange

They call it love it seems so much fun
Perhaps with no intention to hurt anyone

Years go by many things change
This thing called love ever so strange

Our wisdom grows with much despair
A heart felt pain nothing else can compare

But play it well we must do
Who will win it,s up to you

Figure it out don,t even try
The elusive mystery until we die


I would love to hear your comments ladies, good or bad, either way it may inspire me to write more......

First of all i like to meet in a coffee shop to see if you have any kind of a connection, just for some nice easy conversation to learn a little about each other..
Then the next time you meet, out to dinner we go, something nice, doesn,t have to be too fancy, good food, nice atmosphere, a no pressure situation, dinner with a friend..
A movie afterwards is always nice, or a walk in a park can be fun, or perhaps the lady has a suggestion, that,s fine with me.