I think the P.O.F site can be a little weird. I think the ladies get a lot more of the weird stuff then the men. We both know men can, well; not be on there best behavior I haven’t done much dating at all on line but I think it must be better then meeting someone, drunk at a bar going back to there place. Having wild passionate sex all night long, (ok maybe 8 minutes, that’s good right!) with no strings at all. Leaving in the middle of the night, the next day not really remembering what happened everything just seems a little foggy. Sorry what was I saying? That was a bad thing right?
It must be better meeting people on line; I think you get to know the person a little better before you go on that all to awkward first date.
As for me I am a nice shy guy who is looking for there best friend first. As far as relationships go I’m looking for THE ONE. Take for example THE NOTEBOOK, That’s the kind of love that lasts forever. Another one, YOU'VE GOT MAIL. Can you really have love at first site or is it a myth. What about the movie 50 first dates, how far would you go to be with the person you love. or one of my favorites Serendipity is finding your sole mate about fate, is there a master plan for everyone that just will happen or do we have to take advantage of the signs along the way. If we miss the signs do we miss our chance for happiness Is it all in the movies or do these feelings happen in the real life? Who knows that's why I guess were all here, I like to think it is real.
Looking for someone with the same interests to do things with and create a lasting relationship as Friends or well you know!
That special someone, must love kids and be willing to share that time with me. Starting out as friends is very important to me you need to be friends first, the rest just seems to follow if it's meant to be. I love kids I can be a big one myself in a good way of course.
If your interested in just sex OK no, no wait (sorry it's been a while I almost lost myself there) Lets try that again, if your interested in just sex move on
(that was hard to say I am a guy after all you know) I'm shy at first but open up quick, If you’re the right person. I know this sounds gay but I’m looking for "THE ONE"
Well I think that’s enough rambling for now, I probably scared you off, hope not.
BM

Talk get to know the other person, doesn't rally matter what you do or where you go the thing to look for is the special signs that you have made a new friend or something more. Either way you may have a new friendship. and what's wrong with that.