I'm a fit, single, happily working man in the natural/organic health field. I have never been married or lived with anyone and have no children (unless two little cats count). At this point, I'm not thinking of having children in my life...

I have old fashioned chivalrous ways, confidence, awareness and a down to earth, playful, fun sense of humour. Once in a while I'll have a dark or organic beer, but otherwise I don't smoke, drink or use drugs. And, lucky for you, I'm not interested in TV sports!

I enjoy hiking, biking, martial arts, holistic health/shiatsu massage, reading and writing, theatre, working out, sharing old movies and making dinner and popcorn for someone special. The simple things matter, holding hands, making plans, long talks into the night... even grocery shopping can be fun with the right person.

I feel it's important to keep learning and develop a sense of awareness and responsibility/accountability personally and in the world. I also have a love of the mysteries of the world, the mythology, the ancient writings and ruins, the eternal quests and questions and would love to explore these things with a kindred spark...In other words, I am spiritual, not religious.

I'm seeking an enthusiastic, industrious, appreciative and emotionally mature woman for courtship, laughter and sharing the things we've both been saving. Intelligence, depth, witty playfulness, a slender physical compatability and a soft-spoken gentleness in a woman all capture and keep my attention.

Do you most enjoy the natural, simple things in life? I value a woman who is health-aware and a non-smoker, spiritually curious, believes in a spiritual aspect of life, who's attentive, bright, well-spoken, can work with her hands in a creative way, who values her own body and soul and puts forth effort in a relationship, oh and who knows about putting the ingredient of love into food preparation...

Oh, I do think wrinkles around the eyes are beautifully attractive, as is a woman who doesn't wear make-up... Maybe I'm starting to prefer slightly older women who I perceive as being more grounded, beautifully composed and appreciative than the mtv generation.

Please display a photo of yourself if you wish to contact me. My pics were taken Oct 2008 and June 2007.

On a final note, I will not kill spiders, but simply take them outside...

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Added Bonus!
"Top 10 Rules of Engagement"
Marriage and relationships work beautifully if...

1. Both people are past the age of total selfishness (late 30s-40's)

2. They are in their world outlook, spiritually and financially looking in the same direction.

3. They are more committed to working together in turbulance than they are to automatically bailing out.

4. They can make each other laugh.

5. They are more kind to each other's faults and weakness than they are to exploiting them once discovered.

6. Neither seek power, but recognition of each others unique strengths and talents. (ie, You're better at budgeting, I'm better at organizing etc...)

7. They like or at least don't despise the same kind of movie rentals and music.

8. They may both have other friends and extended family, but the new mate now becomes the first priority of each.

9. Home is a place of santuary from the world, a place of healing, not deeper cuts.

10. They should continue to learn and work together on projects.

11. I should write a book, wanna do it together?

Sorry... no penpals, please be local or within driving distance to London. I'm only interested in someone who is available to meet. Ultimately, I believe in courtship... We meet for tea, (or maybe tazo chai latte) a walk and talk. That's all very simple and potentially very meaningful...

If you're waiting for me to you write first, heck it's ok, why not dip your toes in the water, go ahead and write me, sometimes bravery pays...

Female
Age between 27 and 55
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke