OK, first off, I hate having to describe myself. I am what you see. I can be funny, a flirt, or someone who just enjoys a decent debatable conversation (ok, good argument, I admit it) provided it's decently thought out.

Figured I'd check this thing & the people on it out and see what becomes of it.

Not really looking for anything in specific. Only been back a year after being away for 11 and still getting my feet wet getting back into things.

Beyond that, if you were to ask me what I like, I'd say cute/attractive (yes there can be a difference...attitude), intelligent (to make up for my lack there of), and open to different opinions, points of view, and adult rated conversations.

I see many people say they are looking for a "Long Term Relationship" in their profile, but let's be honest. Would you really want to commit to something/someone based on a picture or 2 and some words typed on a screen? I'm a believer in friends first then and see what develops from there.

Beyond that, just play it by ear. I will admit, I am somewhat "shy" when it comes to this online stuff. Contradictory to most, I am not exactly shy in person. So very much the opposite to others who act "open" online, but are very difficult to meet face to face. I will take live over electronic any day. So don't be shy to say hi.

It would entirely depend on the person I'm with. My preference usually leans towards coffee to start rather than drinks. Although some claim it helps get them over the awkward first meeting, the absence of alcohol means better chance to get to know the real person.