I just started as a lab tech for an eyeglass company (boring) & play drums in a rock band (fun!). I also enjoy writing & recording original music (not sure it's good, but it's fun). Love to dabble with Photoshop to create my band's flyers & my own cd covers. I enjoy photography...I was a pro photographer for many years & I may get back into it someday. I enjoy being home, but I'd love to have someone to get out & do things with.

I truly believe in communication in a relationship & I'm very open with my significant other & would like the same. I also believe in friendship in a relationship...I can never understand how some people have relationships with people who simply aren't their best friend. The one you spend the most time with, are intimate with...yet you can't really talk to them?? Baffling!!

I'm a pretty simple, easy-going, gentle, calm, relatively quiet & sometimes silly guy. I'm the affectionate, cuddly-type. Love to hold hands & love kissing. I'm very loyal, trustworthy & I don't play games!! I've learned a looooong time ago that games = conflict & pain, and life is too short to waste time with soap opera antics. Leave that stuff for the high school kiddies.

I'm not in a big hurry to grow up; meaning I happen to appreciate things that younger people do (music, fashion, media), not by choice...I just do. That in no way means that I'm a player and/or that I don't know how to treat a lady...that's the advantage of my experience. I'm not a bad-boy (except in the bedroom), nor am I a trouble-maker, racist, bigot, chauvinist, egomaniac, loud (except while playing drums) or close-minded type.

Looking for someone sweet, honest, trustworthy, sexy & sweet (yeah...I said sweet twice...). I'm looking for someone genuine (No liars, no actresses...just someone who's not afraid to be herself), who has a sense of humor & isn't uptight. It would be nice to find someone who isn't jaded & expects me to screw them over like their ex's...I'm NOT your ex & chances are I'm not anything like them. I believe in being nice to people & especially my mate, but not in a fake, cheesy, salesperson kind of way. I have a creative sense of humor, I'm not uptight at all & like to joke around; one of my favorite quotes is 'F*ck 'em if they can't take a joke'.

If money is more important to you than love, I do not want to hear from you.

Loneliness sucks...

Also, I'm NOT here to find chat buddies...I want to MEET someone, not sit & chat on the computer and/or phone for weeks on end, so please don't respond if you have no plans on meeting me within a reasonable time frame (I'd say a few days of chatting up to a couple weeks at the most). I'm sorry, but it seems I keep meeting women who seem content on chatting for weeks/months with no desire to ever get out & do something. To me, that's not living!

Thanx!

Keep it simple...dinner, go for a walk, maybe go to a quiet club to have a couple drinks & chat.

Female
younger than 46
Live in United States
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not do drugs