As a fiftyish guy my goals aren't the same as they were at twenty. When I was twenty I wanted to be a commercial artists but I found my work wasnt up to industry standards. I havent sold anything , but I do have my drawings and artwork scattered across the US, owing to a case of wanderlust and employment with a traveling carnival.
I worked as a ride operator, and in my free time, I drew pictures for my co-workers (Dragons, Lusty (?? lol) breasted women and mountain scenes (as we were often set up in the cascades, I had plenty of models )
Since those days , I worked as a factory worker, in plastics and metals. Also I worked in food distribution, as a warehouse worker.
I have been disabled since 2002 owing to bloodclots and seizures. But I hope to get training to re-enter the workforce and build up my retirement income.
As far as music...well its all good. But my tastes tend toward classic rock and blues
although I do like some old time rockabilly like Hank Williams Sr. & Woody Guthrie
I don't claim to be anyone special but Id like to be special to that one person.

First dates are open ... I think the first time you go out you should just go with the flow ...
Dates should not be planned let her see the real you..after all , if shes interested..its not where you go or what you do.its how she is treated