I found my friend with chemistry and sparks. We now share conversation, affection, time and activities together. I do not see a way to remove my profile from POF. After 4 years, I found someone to share my life with. I want to share my success with those of you who are still looking; it was a lot of effort looking. I got discouraged along the way, but kept at it. We married Feb 29 08 and are both happier than we have been in our lives. It is a calm easy happiness of sharing life with someone of high quality and compatibility. Good luck. Candace & Jack

Jack contacted me with an note, and I asked for his phone number. His profile was new, not very well filled out, and his photo looked like a deer in the headlights. His note seemed so honest, and unassuming that I asked for his phone number and called. He kept me company over the phone during a one hour commute to Phoenix, and he had an easy honest give and take communication style that was part of the whole package I was looking for. I guess our first date was a phone conversation. The next date was lunch at a modest restaurant with good food.