I suppose I'm leaving this page as more of a testament that there is a right one for us all. I spent a couple of years single (well, not any serious relationships anyway). At first I wanted to. I jumped from one relationship to another before that and had never been completely single. After a while I began to want something again, but this time I wanted something important and genuine. I've met a lot of people along the way and almost as many of the wrong type. I was being picky, to understate it. When I had given up hope completely on there being someone that was right for me, I spent a little more time on my own. One day, out of the blue,I found her.We spent the rest of that day together. That one day turned into six weeks. In the sixth week we decided that we could never be without each other. A week later we were married in the same spot we met. A year later we are still absolutely inseparable and completely in love.She is my "perfect one".

What I'm saying is give up looking, but don't give up on wanting something real. Let go, but dont sell yourself short. The younger ladies especially. Remember that most men are almost primarily sexually driven. Blame nature, not our gender. I said MOST men. The other guys, the ones you are all looking for, whether you know it or not, are the ones that don't want the girl that is only pretty, knows how to party, and will sell herself short in repect, to grab someones attention. Don't lose sight of the respect you were taught to have for yourself. Real people want and respect more than just those things.

My point is, if I, being as much of a mess as I am(you can ask my wife. she loves me but she'll readily admit it) can find happiness, all of you will too. I know it. I never thought it would be me, NEVER. There IS someone that matches each of us. I truly believe that's the way our existance is designed.

Good fishing everyone. I hope I get some messages with good news. I love good news. Or if you have a good story (well good, bad, funny) from your experience in this online dating world, write me. Thanks for dropping in. Have the best day of your life today. Why not, right?