I want a woman that’s nuts. Seriously. She’d have to be half crazy to mess with a bloke like me. In this crazy world where partners, like feelings, are just as disposable as a Target receipt, a gal that decides on a clever whim to leave herself vulnerable to new life experiences, while grasping for the good in people, is nuts…or maybe she’s the sane one.
Molte Importante. She must love Black men. Yep, I went there. High five! I rarely go on these sties because the preferences tend to not include us Black African Caribbean Afro-Latino men. She can be of any race, nation, or culture, but for whatever reason, she’s genuinely into the brothas. That doesn’t mean she excludes others for the brothers, but she’s prone to be a brotha lova.
More than just a demographic-related preference, she also has to believe in change. Not from an after holiday sale, but have an Obama-like view of things. I tell people that his campaign is a reflection of what I believe is a different kind of leadership amongst our communities, which tend to stay ‘stuck’ on an archetype, a prototypical view of what leadership should be - based on those heroic references of the not too distant past. Why else would Italy have re-elected Berlusconi? Ufaaaa. Don’t even let me get to Mugawbe.
Obama represents a different kind of story, even if his campaign or message is forgotten in the annals of time, like Dr. King or Malcolm X or Albert Einstein, Marie Curie, Paul Robeson, or Andrew Carnegie, or Eleanor Roosevelt, or B.R. Ambedkar, we remember their story and its significant contribution to our social growth.
If a girl wants to get with THIS boy, she also has to be looking for a “different” kind of story, just as I would expect the same from her. Let’s forgo the playbook and the life scripts, and make music. You be the Treble, and I be the Bass.
Ok, about me: I’m somewhere between Jason’s Lyric and Pablo Neruda. I’m a Cancer with a Leo rising, Taurus moon, Venus in Gemini and a Virgo Mars. I like dancing parties and not “looking cute parties”. You won’t see me at a bar, but you will probably run into me at Barnes and Nobles or on the subway with a book in my hand and listening to the “My Inspirations” playlist. What’s on your playlist, and if we get together, what would be the soundtrack? Will Yo Yo Ma be featured? Who doesn’t love Yo Yo Ma and Coming to America?
I’m running out of space, so I’ll wrap it up. Please don’t be down to earth or like all kinds of people. I’ve noticed that those same self-descriptions often used on these sites fringe on pretentiousness and two-dimensional thinking. I have a “fake depictions” radar and weed out the repressed chicks from the organic ones. I want someone who loves hanging out as opposed to dates, prefers watching a home movie…that I’ve downloaded…legally..of..course….lol. The same energy she has that can light up a room with her charm is the same one that I can flop beside on through a cold Brooklyn night. Spooning, DVR, hooking up friends, and I’ll occasionally change your screensaver to The Ring.
WARNING: I’ll probably embarrass you with my infamous Penn Station shout, “ENTER YOUR NAME HERE, is not a whore!!! She’s my date!!!” Silly days and special evenings…that’s me – The Bed-Stuy Buddhist Tango.
First Date
It could be Barnes and Nobles, Carnegie Hall, the promenade in Brooklyn, or the Court St. movie theater. It all depends..as long is it is more about hanging out than being on a date.
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