I've had a lot of time to reflect on what I want, and I came up with this...I want the 1000 butterfly feeling. If you've been in love you know what I'm talkin' about. I'm looking for someone who I can get stuck in traffic with, just because I want to hear her talk to me more. I want to take a "redeye" flight home from where ever I am just to spend an extra hour on the couch. I want someone to light up at a surprise so i will have to try harder to get that smile the next day. No secrets, no "I thought that's what you wanted"...

I'm an easy going, hardworking guy looking for someone special. These descriptions are usually rife with crap. No one is going to tell you that they snore and have a hairy back in the first sentence. You get to find that out on your own!!!
So, I'll tell you that I'm active and value that in my partner. I realize that I'm not perfect and I can learn something from everyone. I'm not a knight in shining armor, but I know how to treat a lady. I don't play games for sex. If you aren't my type, I will tell you.
I know how to listen and don't bottle things up until they explode. Not my style.
I love the beach, traveling, surfing, playing guitar, biking, working out, reading and raising a little hell here and there.
I am looking for a smart, attractive, confident lady to have some fun with and hopefully graduate to something LONG TERM.

But, it's got to start somewhere.
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Lastly, I know that beauty is on the inside, but if there is no spark there can't be a fire.

PS: If you've viewed me and I've viewed you more than once, I'm either stupid or I didn't contact you because of your restrictions. So drop me a note so we can chat.




Having a bad day on POF? Having a bad day period? Check these out. They have some foul language so if you don't like that stuff, avoid these.

On Dating In General:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMuIG2vE9I0&feature=related

On yours and my forum opinions:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GBPQ6fiLr0

On beauty:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2EyE5zWJ_Ww&feature=related
http://www.illwillpress.com/jigg.html

On achievements:
http://www.illwillpress.com/ACH22.html


And on the guy you women KNOW you want::
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JMOh-cul6M

Again I could go on about sunsets, flowers, candles....but maybe that's not your style. I say "beach" you say "I'm allergic to sand". I'd like to get to know you before I try to guess what you like. Let me just say, I aim to please.