There is the old rumour that "opposites attract".... but I am not falling for it..... I believe that keeping a relationship together, is full time work...and the more things that You have in common.. the easier it is !..... My name is Art.. I just turned 51... My God.. I do not feel anywhere near 51.. but.. I sure do look it ! :-)..I have been divorced for 12 years now.. I have a BEAUTIFUL daughter..15.. that lives with Her Mom, close by here.. and I have a AWESOME son..25..that is Married and lives in Las Vegas .. I am just a average guy.. I am not rich... But I work , pay my bills, and try to squeeze some fishing in there at times.. ..I work for a security company.. right now I work nights... only because I was working days, and I found that living alone..coming home in the evening and eating alone, watching tv alone, going to bed alone really sucked !!.. so I figured.. work nights.. and My days I can always stay busy enough not to think about the fact I do not have someone special in My life to share things with.....I would like someone that..was honest...someone I can come home too or wait till She got home and shared our events of the day.. Have a nice dinner..share the cooking and cleaning duties.. then snuggle into the sofa together and watch a little tv, or good movie..also enjoy little weekend getaways!! I am a Bluejeans or shorts kind of guy... but I clean up well and can dress up! :-).. I like to fish.. I guess I just love to be by the water.. it is so relaxing, and gives You a great attitude about life..... .. I like yard sales, and walking through flea markets!.. I like looking at other peoples junk ! LOL.. maybe there is something I need..or maybe something I think I can sell on Ebay and make a couple bucks !!.... Anyway.. that is a little bit about Me.. If you are at all interested, even a little... and would like to know more... I sure would like to know more about You !! Hope to talk to You soon !!

First date ?? Hmmmmmm.... probably coffee..or a drink in a public place...probably on or near the beach