...now ask yourself, am I missing: friendship, romance, a faithful honest man, unexpected kisses, cologne on my pillow, being held close, treated as a priority instead of an afterthought, public displays of affection, cooked & served dinner, or someone who cares when it hurts and shares when it counts?

If you can't live w/o: a neck or shoulder rub (w/ kisses), a soothing full body lotion massage *warning!!! if I'm distracted & I lose my place I'll have to start ALL over again... & again... & again...* or how about a candle lit bubble bath (w/ relaxing music & decorative trimmings) then being gently dried from head to toe.

If this is what you crave & haven't found it before now... then I may be your man.

Best points: 1st & foremost - I was raised in the ways of my Native heritage and that a man should have respect for all women for they are the life givers... respect for our elders and mother earth. 2nd - I'm very low maintenance, not afraid of hard work, prepared for almost anything, a great cook, not intimidated by new things or change, ...so cheerful, positive & upbeat in the morning its really sickening. I love to pamper my woman, spoil children & animals. I play well with others, clean the bathroom, wash dishes, can carry my own load & still have time for helping others. I enjoy to learn (attended 3 colleges, 3 different majors, now working on my 4th) & viewing life from the best vantage points (way up high or on the water). I'm "stirred" by nature, believe action speaks louder than egos, know when to say I'm sorry (and mean it), don't give up easily & accept few limitations in life.

If you have hang ups about getting old or that you look less than perfect then I'm not the guy for you... unless of course, you become more secure as trust builds. Insecurity breeds jealousy & to the very true and faithful it is an irreversible undeserved insult. I'd rather fall in love with a happy woman who will recipricate my true affection & needs what I have to offer than to be with a drop dead gorgeous babe w/ an attitude... BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, NEVER AGAIN!.

Not my best points: can't stand mind games, conflicts, drama or arguing. Don't care for those who need to turn ecstasy into agony. I can do without negativity or those who take cheap shots at the less unfortunate.

I can't live w/o: a campfire, being w/ my horse, living near water (kayaking, canoing & fishing), hearing children laugh, making my woman feel truly special, being kissed... a lot!, the smell of a woman's hair, touching soft skin (if yours isn't so soft just give me time... please refer back to the lotion massage warning).

I work hard & play hard... it keeps me physically fit & mentally alert. I appreciate each day as a gift not a right. I'm personally happy & fulfilled which means I don't depend on others for these emotions. I focus on the big picture while being aware of the much simpler things, like doing the laundry w/o turning everything pink or shrinking your delicates so you don't think your butt is getting bigger... LOL.

I enjoy life by watching the kids play, working hard or a day with my horse. I don't wish to depart from this life being run over by a Winnebago, I'd rather check out while engaging in something I truly enjoy & knowing I've had the rare experience of sharing life w/ a wonderful woman who truly makes me feel that I will always be genuinely missed.

I live a simple life on the peninsula in a modest cabin over looking West Bay w/ water frontage & fire pits (see photo taken from my front porch).

Life's values aren't measured by how many breathes I take, but instead by the great rare moments that takes my breathe away!

So... if you're not too prissy to bait your own hook then e-mail me... but if you want me to do it so we can be closer together then you need to send it right away... you won't be sorry!

A cliff climbing, repelling, kayaking, canoeing, wood splitting, horse loving water nut with a great big heart.

Paul

Now C'mon... who really sits around and thinks of such things? To me this is more or less a "trick question" that allows shallow people to bull sh*t their way into someone else's life. I'm not one of those so instead of answering it as such... allow me to finish by telling you what it is that I do for normal activity (with or without any company).... if you want to come along, that would be Great... if not, that's ok too.
Hit a yard sale or two for a few laughs (and hopefully a great bargain) and its off to a museum, or an art gallery or the local Craft Show. Then head down to a lake or the bay for some fishing, kayaking, or canoeing... or just a nice swim to cool off. If the fish have been biting... then I grill a tasty lunch with the catch of the day and then cruise to the barn for a horse-back ride... You would get to meet my horses "Bad Boy Bentley", he's a registered Tennesee Walker 4 year old Bloood Bay gelding and then there's "Spirit" a 3 year old gelding Morgan / Standard Bred mix, also a Blood Bay... they look like brothers. After all the play time, I'd like go to some quiet place to where we can just talk without distractions as to we can get to know eachother a little better. I like taking things slow... friends first. I've noticed through past relationships of those who fall in love rapidly usually fall out of love just as fast... like a flash in the pan. I am patiently waiting for the mate who is in it for the long haul, wants to make it last.... wants to make it count for something. I am very devoted, protective of my lady, and have the inner desire to meet her needs. All else is just details... lol