I enjoy the company of tall,rugged men. A man who can hold his own in the "real" world and in the outdoors is something that I grew up with. It's what I'm used to. Looks are important, too. I'm sorry but I can't lie. Myself, I turn at least one head a day, and If I want to, I can be the center of attention. I'd like a man who appreciates that. I'd like to be able to try new things with someone, especially if he's motivated. Personally, I could use a swift smack on the ass, every now and then. And something else; I laugh at everything. I have a cruel sense of humor. i also have a big dog, so if You have one as well, then we can schedule a play date for them. he's very social and pretty well behaved. it'll also be a good way for us to interact.
____09/26/06----addendum
i'd like to add a little something personal that i think Y'all should know about me. i'm very much in to BDSM....and i am looking for a partner who enjoys the same kind of play
____11/02/06----did You ever notice......?
people who are socially retarded don't even know it??? The only way i can get past a first date, (if that's what you want to call the first awkward meeting between online daters), and the guy happens to be a self-righteous dork, is to get loaded! Alcohol is a social lubricant, so why doesn't it make him more charming? i'm cute when i'm drunk...You'll never have to hold my hair or keep me from dancing on tables, (unless that is what pleases You). And for the life of me...(somebody please help me out with this)...i can't figure out why these self righteous, socially retarded dorks think they have what it takes to bend me over their knee! i am serious when i say that these men who want to play, immediately start to find things to threaten punishment. It is so friggin' irritating! Here's the thing, if You're an experienced Dom, great! If not, don't pretend you know what you're doing, or continually ask me to show you the ropes, (so to speak)! I CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH YOU! Submissive does not mean naive.
____now that i have finished ranting.....some good news.....
i just got back from a first encounter with a god! He's a giant...He's an MD..He drives a big truck...He's italian...He's funny and cruel at the same time..and he kissed me, (boy, did he kiss me!) *sigh*. Now that's what i'm talkin' about! Step up to the plate! Be a Man! Make that she-devil understand You are what she needs...oh, and act like it's no big deal whether or not you two ever see each other again...(but don't be an ass about it). The idea here is to make her want to fall at Your feet.
one last thing....body types deemed, "a few extra pounds"...much love to you, but you're just not my bag, baby.
_____12/10/06

i've had correspondence with a few men who are interested in the BDSM lifestyle. This is great! the bondage group i belong to in SA needs some fresh blood. If You're stuck in the vanilla world, i will be more than happy to give You the resources to get out & find a place to explore Your kink. You probably won't find it here, so get out there and find what you need. It may, or may not be here, but it wouldn't hurt to find other venues.

_____03/05/07

it's nice to meet people who have a genuine interest in the same things....Mmmm...guns & leather....i am still meeting some really great people! A couple of them haven't worked out as well as i had hoped, but screw it, it's cool. i do have one thing to say though. Just because i'm submissive, please don't get the notion you'll own me. If you are serious about what i do, and how to get into it, then i'm here for you.

04/15/07_____

i went to a fetish club Friday night with my new friend Ben. He had never been to one, and i think He really enjoyed Himself. Actually, i KNOW he enjoyed Himself! He had the opportunity to experiment with some bondage, and really did well! Thank You Ben, for bringing me such exquisite pain!

10/24/07

thank you very much fellas for showing me how to delete my account. Hopefully i won't be recieving any more messages telling me how stupid i am for not knowing how. What a ***hole thing to say to a person you don't know....not to mention it tells a lot about a person when they attempt to degrade some one they don't know. Is it a coincidence that those who do that, don't have pictures on their profiles? or is there some sort of way to have the option of not showing one's profile photo? If you're going to be mean, at least try and not show your yella belly...your fat, hairy, nasty, yella belly...i'll bet they all have man-boobs, too! Ewww! if there is one thing that grosses me out, it's man-boobs. Here's a question...what grosses you men out, about women? C'mon..be honest...it'll make for some great conversation.

11/14/07--------

So my b-day is coming up on the 20th....not sure how it will be celebrated. Anybody have any original ideas?..*other than getting drunk*

11/24/2007----------

i've just finished browsing "my matches". 90% of You are some fine sons a guns! wow! now that makes for one delicious fantasy!...*trembles*

SURPRISE THE HELL OUT OF ME!

IMPORTANT NEWS FOR YOU MEN IN SEARCH OF SOMETHING COOL.......
if you want her to fall for you...this is how you do it...(it was an actual psychology experiment). okay, ready?....
Take her to do something that increases endorphine levels..something that gets the blood pumping. If you do this for at least the first 3 dates....every time she sees you...her brain will release chemicals that make her blood pressure soar! it'll be an autonomic response....and she will be yours! it's just up to you not to **** it up! he he he he