The activity is not as important to me as getting to know the PERSON. Dates are simply a device to establish common ground. Communication is a MUST. i would consider the date a success if we were able to open paths of compatiblity and communication sufficient to the continuation of the relationship.
First Date
I like sit down meals in a cozy atmosphere, candle light etc. Nothing fancy. After dinner a nice walk in a the park or the mall where we can talk.