I recently was sitting at a pub downtown with a gentleman friend sipping martinis. While chatting about various topics, he remarked that I had a tendency to over-analyze things. "Oh, really?" I replied. "Yes", he said, "There's only one question that you need to ask a person to truly get an idea of their personality." Slightly amused with such simplicity, I slowly bit off an olive. "O.K., I'm game", I casually responded. "It's easy," he replied, "What would they rather have? Permission or forgiveness?" I pondered the question for a moment and finally decided what my answer would be. Damn! He was right. Such a simple question speaks volumes about a person's attitude towards life!
Independent, playful, articulate, sweet-natured and kind hearted (with a tendency to spoil a man rotten :-)) Professional business owner who occasionally lets her 'Bad Girl' side come out to play. LOL
In short, I'm a bubbly, well-educated, adventurous - and flirtatious - woman looking to make a few good rowdy/ charming/ outgoing friends for chatting, observations, laughs, and all-around fun. ;-)
I consider myself to be a balance of mind and body. I'm always up for intellectual pursuits and trying new things. But, I admit: I'm a hopeless hedonist, so if it's highly pleasurable, I'll try it twice...or more. Part of me likes to be on the go and would enjoy the company of an educated, passionate, intelligent man who can keep up; my sensual and romantic side wants a strong and spirited man to 'collide' with.
What do I find attractive in a person? Intelligence. Confidence. Passion - whether it be for a hobby, a job, a cause or their family. Passionate people usually have a great sense of humour, as well. I find that incredibly sexy! I LOVE to laugh. But, I should caution you: I have a very warped sense of humour. Think Monty Python in a head-on collision with The Far Side!
What do I NOT find attractive in a man? If he's rude or has no social graces, I'll be looking for the nearest exit. Also, unlike many women, I have no interest in changing a man. If I spend time with him, it's because I enjoy his company and accept him AS HE IS -- attributes AND faults. I take the whole package.
Oh, and just for the record: I'm not 41 - I'm simply a responsible 27 with 14 years' extra experience. That translates to: old enough to know better, but still young enough not to necessarily do it!
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First Date
Well, let's just chat first and get to know each other, shall we? First dates occur if there's chemistry...and I don't believe in uncomfortable, typical first dates! In fact, I just might surprise you. ;-) LOL
By the way, that Seduction Style test is pretty accurate!
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One hell of a woman. To find one of such intelligence, wit, compassion and beauty is a rare thing indeed. I am truly blessed to have her in my life. Now if only she didn't live so damn far away. ;)
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