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About Me
Hey!
Let me start by saying that I'm ultimately looking for a long term relationship. My best friend & lover. Someone to walk through the rest of life with, hand in hand. Supporting each other. Complimenting each other's lives. Growing old with togetherness. Hopefully having a bit of fun along the way.
I'm a fairly easy going, very independent, logical, neat, clean, organized, good hearted, honest, caring, affectionate individual. Try to find the best in people, as tough as it may be. Tend to treat others the way I hope to be treated myself. Live by the golden rule. Not even slightly religious & don't feel the need for a preacher or a book to tell me how to be a good person. Definitely not a big fan of drama, nonsense & selfcentered narcissism. Value integrity & the use of common sence. Believe that when you do anything, that it should be done to the very best of your ability. Prefer casual attire & events over others. A jeans, Chili's restaurant kind of guy. Relatively quick witted, fairly warped, semi-sarcastic, wise ass. Enjoy finding humor in most things, cuz let's face it, you kinda just have to, in order to stay sane. Very appreciative of the simple things in life. Everything in moderation. Uh?, well?, maybe not everything? I've determined that I need to be with an intelligent women. One who has good communication skills & is willing to use them. I'm a very good listener. Open communication, honesty & respect are essential to a healthy relationship. I don't find it necessary to share a great amount of common interests & passions. Learning about each other is part of the journey. I believe that even cleaning out the garage can be fun if you're with the right person.
I'd like to meet a cute, intelligent, relatively fit, healthy, neat, clean, honest, affectionate, caring woman. Someone playful who enjoys quiet times together, yet also enjoys going out once in awhile.
While I certainly appreciate your filling in the essay section, if it reads like a first grader wrote it, you're definitely not the girl for me. Each profile is an advertisement in itself. I tend to read between the lines & get quite a bit more out of it than you might think. I'm very selective. If you don't have fairly recent photos posted, please be prepared to send a few. If you're a smoker, regular drinker, druggie, religious freak or are riddled with tattoo's, I won't be interested. I have particular tastes & know my preferances in a partner & what it takes for me to be & stay interested. I certainly don't have the need to be needed, but rather want to be wanted. I do however, prefer to be single than alone in a relationship that doesn't fit. Outer beauty will attract my atttention, inner beauty will keep it.
Lets take some day trips, have some fun, get to know each other & see where it leads.
[Sorry, my IM on this site doesn't work. However, I do have Yahoo. If you're a nice girl, maybe I'll give you my ID?]
Thanks for taking a look.
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First Date
Preferably a quiet location. Maybe a quick meeting at a coffee shop or a local bar to see if we hit it off. If that goes well, we can take it from there. Maybe go for a walk, go somewhere for a bite to eat, or just stay where we are & get to know each other better. Definitely not a movie. Can't get to know each other that way.
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