Summer is just around the corner...wanna be my trip date? Day trips, weekend trips...having some fun in the sun and putting our day to day existance on hold to fully enjoy what life has to offer. I'm not necessarily looking for a long term situation, but I am open to whatever life throws at me. I've been rather rigid in my wants and needs due to heavy work schedules, but...in light of some very good advice given to me by a very dear friend, I thought it would be the perfect time to revamp my profile. So, here goes!

ME: Bigger gal (that does not morph into a skinny sex goddess the moment you message me), funny, intellegent, great sense of humour (I'm here, aren't I? lol), secure financially and mentally. I love a good debate about anything you can think of...I even debate politics and religion without getting myself into a fury...I love to hear other people's opinions (especially if they differ from my own) and I respect that you are entitled to your own opinion, even if they don't match mine. I can be sarcastic and sometimes show a very dry sense of what is funny...but, it's nothing that a good dose of friendly ribbing can't cure. I've done alot of traveling and love comparing notes...or even planning a new adventure with a fun person!
I have pretty blue eyes, a crooked nose, a beautiful smile, and all of my own teeth! I consider myself somewhat attractive...but, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, and while your definition of beauty may be different than mine...taking chances on what lies underneath is sometimes better than hitting the jackpot at the casino (not always, because lets face it...if I were to choose between the image staring back at me in the mirror OR a fat million from the black jack table...oh, think of the plastic surgery a million could buy...liposuction, a tuck here, a tuck there, lifting this, lifting that...it would be a hard choice!! (lol))

I'm looking for friends first, who knows where that can lead! I'm not impressed by what you HAVE...I am more interested in who you are and what you have to say and do, how you treat others, what your goals and beliefs are. I'm a bit of a traditionalist, I don't go on first dates expecting to fall into bed with someone...but, I'm not a prude either and whatever chemistry happens to rear up, I'm not about to ignore it...I just don't go into a date with expectations that dull that "first date" experience. I do need to say that I'm NOT INTERESTED IN MARRIED OR ATTACHED MEN AT ALL...that is just a personal decision and I thank you in advance for respecting that.

I look forward to hearing from whoever is interested in learning more about me...and I wish all that view this profile good luck in their searches! Enjoy your summer!

You are: between 35-50. NOT MARRIED. NOT ATTACHED. Not an alcoholic, but enjoys a few drinks now and again. Size is not an issue. You must be willing to practice safe sex (I do, always, no exceptions). Be fun, happy, have a great sense of humour, be secure in who you are. You must not be looking for a one night stand. I'm not looking for a long term situation right now, but I am not closed minded to it...I've been single for a long time, and to be quite honest, after careful re-evaluation, am not entirely sure what it is that I do want as far as relationships go...I guess you could say that I am a work in progress and things have a tendancy to change. I don't play games, though...I try to be very upfront and am always honest. I am just looking to have some fun, and whatever comes of it, comes of it. I'll be happy just to have met you and got a chance to have some fun!