I'm 45 years old and I have a 19 year old son the lives with me. He is a pretty good kid. I enjoy bowling, softball, skiing,(water and snow). Not a great cook, but my son and I aren't starving, I like to help in the kitchen and I even know how to do dishes. I've been working for the state for over 20 years and hopefully can retire in the next 10 years or so. I believe that relationships have to be worked on everyday. Roses don't stop after the wedding bells. I am looking for the woman I can't live without. Its all about being open and honest.

First Date, thats depends on the person that I am with. It could range from picnic in the park to candle light dinner and a walk on the beach. Go to a place where we can both be confortable and have time to talk and see if we really do click or not.