Okay UPDATE: I have been on here for a while now at first had no picture. Kind of private that way. Then decided to post a picture. Question for the men on here. I have talked with several on here. Granted nice people. But none seem to be serious about meeting for coffee or drink or dinner I dont know what to think about this whole internet dating thing? I am not looking to get married tomorrow trust me on that one ! LOL Maybe I am doing something wrong here? Dont know but seems like the men on here are just looking to "chat" or just look around? Geez I dont know. Maybe I should go back to the traditional style and old fashion way of dating and meeting people. Anyone any suggestions or LOL like to prove me wrong??? Are you up for the challenge? LOL Anyway, .......... Kind of tired of men that play games. I dont need a man to take care of me per say. I am independent. But would like to find a "nice" guy. To hang out with, become friends, and just see where it goes. I am kind of a "come what may woman". Will tell more about myself if we correspond. I am a bit private that way. Keeps the gossip and drama away! LOL I dont like those things! LOL Also, I do smoke on occassion. Yeah I know a nasty habit! LOL But so addictive? But I am very respectful of non-smokers and practice good hygenine! LOL But if you absolutely hate that. Thats ok, just past me by but thanks for looking and good luck in your search. Also, I have a picture available for those that are serious.(send me a pic as I want to "see" who I am speaking with as well) When and if we talk then I will be glad to show you. Just dont like my picture out there for everyone. Okay, update..I now have that picture! Not quite so shy anymore. LOL

It would depend on the person I were going on a date with. What we have in common, time of season, bunch of things that is too broad a question.