| x_file :
I'm not dating. I'm here for the forums. |
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| City |
Toronto Ontario |
| Area |
Canada |
| Ethnicity |
Caucasian |
| Sign |
Scorpio |
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Height | 6' 2" (188 cm)
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| I am Seeking a |
Woman
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Who is Looking
for |
Other Relationship |
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| Smoker? |
Occasionally |
| Do you drink? |
Socially |
| Marital Status |
Not Single/Not Looking |
| Profession |
Profession |
| Smarts |
Some university |
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| Do you want children? |
Undecided/Open |
| Do you do drugs? |
Socially |
| Do you have children? |
No |
| Do you have a car? |
N/A |
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| | About Me |
| | ~ Know thyself. (Socrates)
~ If you catch yourself moving away from something, stop. Consider moving towards something. (x_file)
~ Any emotion, if it is sincere, is involuntary. (Mark Twain)
~ Character is destiny. (?)
~ For young children it is primarily experience that determines character. For the adult it is character that determines experience. (?)
~ Happiness is getting what you want, but sometimes getting what you want causes unhappiness. (x_file)
~ What is "The Good"? That which allows for self-knowledge. (x_file)
~ What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies. (Aristotle)
~ What is philosophy? Philosophy is deliberate rigorous self-examination. Or as Socrates put it, "The unexamined life is not worth living". (x_file)
~ All is One. (Parmenides)
~ You are as much as the world, as the world is you. (x_file)
~ Doubt is the origin of wisdom. (Rene Descartes)
~ Doubt is to ignorance as paint thinner is to paint. In the absence of ignorance, doubt is to the soul as chocolate is to a dog. (x_file)
~ If you would be a real seeker after truth, it is necessary that at least once in your life you doubt, as far as possible, all things. (Rene Descartes)
~ In all affairs it's a healthy thing now and then to hang a question mark on the things you have long taken for granted. (Bertrand Russell)
~ Nothing gives rest but the sincere search for truth. (Blaise Pascal)
~ Truth is treason in the empire of lies. (Ron Paul)
~ What truth is in your reasoning and reasoning in your truth? (?)
~ People who speak the truth are honest. Not all honest people speak the truth. Some don't know. Others don't bother. (x_file)
~ Language is like a great illusionist - making truths appear where none exist. (x_file)
~ There are many men who want to know, yet few know why. Of the few, all are wrong. Hardly any admit to not know. (x_file)
~ A fanatic is someone who redoubles his efforts while losing sight of his goal. (George Santayana)
~ There is nothing so inefficient as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all. (?)
~ If the fool would persist in his folly he would become wise. (William Blake)
~ If you believe in heaven and hell, then you must ask yourself the question: Where am I now? (x_file)
~ Religion is a funnel through which the options of others fill your mind. (x_file)
~ Religion does not hand out faith - it can't. People are the source of faith, yet religion has monopoly on faith. (x_file)
*** Quotes from forums: ***
~ Contrary to all the “all these guys are just trying to get into my pants” - “guys just want sex” - I would wager that most single guys just want a REAL girlfriend. Sure guys want sex but ... sex with their REAL girlfriend. (datingPosts10084226.aspx - 23 - ron9)
~ I still say we never ever really know what - is on the minds of others. No matter how well we think we know them. We only “think” we know them. (datingPosts10020464.aspx - 27 - ron9)
~ A real man or woman is true to their own feelings and opinions. While not seeking to offend others they realize that some people will find their opinions offensive. But to suggest that you won't get laid or will sleep on the dating-site-couch for the night, represents the worst in controlling and manipulative behavior. (datingposts10135618.aspx - 1 - Triumvirat)
~ As I mentioned above deliberately postponing or avoiding anything that is natural will have a detrimental effect on a relationship. The problem is not so much that sex is necessary. The problem is why is it being avoided. While there is no specific time frame once one realizes there is deliberate avoidance all sort of red flags are raised. (datingPosts10041657.aspx - 70 - dave1234)
~ A couple must be in complete harmony, otherwise, affairs occur. (datingPosts10088519.aspx - 30 - dave1234)
~ Sex, being an innate drive, is not so easily changed or negotiated. Compare it, if you will, to ones preference for food. It is difficult to change a person's food preference. It's far more complicated than just a matter of negotiation or compromise. (datingPosts9996713.aspx - 95 - dave1234)
~ If fidelity/faithfulness/ monogamy is at the top of anyone’s list then that means sex is at the top of their list. The unfortunate part is, going by profiles, it appears many people have difficulty making that connection. (datingPosts9997150.aspx - 69 - dave1234)
~ Some women will say men just want sex and then turn around and say they are only interested in a ONS. It doesn’t make any sense. As you state if men like sex and they are getting sex they are going to stay. (datingPosts9997150.aspx - 54 - dave1234)
~ After half a century of living I have never, ever, not even once heard a guy say, "My wife/girlfriend/partner is sexually terrific but I had an affair anyway." (datingPosts9979404.aspx - 54 - dave1234) |
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~ Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out an eel. (Leonardo Di Vinci)
~ The appropriate age for marriage is around eighteen for girls and thirty-seven for men. (Aristotle)
~ Men have been trained and conditioned by women, not unlike the way Pavlov conditioned his dogs, into becoming their slaves. As compensation for their labours men are given periodic use of a woman’s vagina. (Esther Vilar - a woman)
~ Women are, in contrast to men, practically immune to the looks of the opposite sex. If a woman flirts with her husband's best friend, her intention is to annoy his wife, whose feelings do matter, unlike those of her own husband. (Esther Vilar - a woman)
~ `It is better to let them think that they are king of the castle,' a female reader of Psychology Today wrote, `lean and depend on them and continue to control and manipulate them as we always have. (Esther Vilar - a woman)
~ `For the sake of love' a woman will do things that are of advantage only to herself, while man does only those things that will harm him. When a woman marries, she gives up her career `for the sake of love.' When a man marries, he will have to work for two `for the sake of love.' (Esther Vilar - a woman)
~ The average American woman is a whore. Her vagina is a business, and this business is extortion. Her most cherished goal is to live at a man's expense, to luxuriate in a life without work or responsibility. (M. Fitzgerald)
~ Emotions have no place in a woman's pursuit for "love", because such feelings could cause her to make the error of falling for a poor man. She makes sure, however, that she takes full advantage of her partner's emotions, because she knows that it is men who genuinely fall in love, never women. (M. Fitzgerald)
~ So if a man were to offer her a hundred dollars to go to bed with him, she would be outraged and morally offended. But if he were to spend the same amount at an upscale restaurant, she might-if he slavishly succumbed to her hypocritical game-allow him to have sex with her. In either case, the deal is the same-her body for cash-but by accepting a meal instead of dollars, she can sugarcoat the transaction with "romance", thus enabling her to perpetuate her "I'm a nice girl" fantasy. A man will not get laid until a woman has convinced herself that she is not a whore-that is, until she has forced him to pretend that he has no sexual interest in her, while simultaneously paying an exorbitant price for her company. (M. Fitzgerald)
~ A single, dating woman is the queen of dishonest prostitutes. What arouses her is not an aching hunger for the pleasures of intercourse, but an unquenchable materialistic lust. (M. Fitzgerald)
* I've met enough women who fit the description of several of the above quotes. I've also met enough women who are nothing like the above quotes, and who, not surprisingly, are in loving relationships.
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