I’m not a male model. I’ll never be, I don’t think I’d like to be either- it seems like one would have to make a LOT of arduous sacrifices. Over the course of my life I feel I’ve made quite a few already (and I know I’m not through yet), but why add unnecessary ones?
I love to cook (and I’m actually quite good at it), but most everything tastes better when there’s someone else to share it with. Fancy or casual, it really doesn't matter as long as the company is good (that's you hopefully sometime).
I am a low maintenance kind of guy, but my expectations are for you to be relatively the same. What I guess I’m trying to convey is that if we try to “make a go” of it, I believe in a little space for each of us. Don’t get me wrong, I love spending time with my partner- I just know from experience, I know that smothering your partner is a good way to ruin the relationship.
I’m an easy going guy with a big heart and I don’t have any problem with the forgiveness of things. I do not believe in living in the past (or dragging it up in a disagreement), and I prefer a mate that feels the same. Some personality traits I offer are things like: honesty, patience, compassion, loyalty, and to be as open as possible. However, I do place a high value on tact. Most of the time I feel that “brutal” honesty is unnecessary.
My humor? let me think of some apropos adjectives, hmmm...... how about: witty, sarcastic/facetious, biting, ironic, vulgar/obscene, racial, in the gutter, poor-taste, playful, razor-sharp, clever, off-color, dirty, open, etc.-etc.... everybody tells me that I have the best sense of humor they know, and you know what? I agree with them. There not too many things I feel so confident about (even to the point of 'vanity'), so I toot my horn when I can.
My ideal match would be a nice girl with a sense of humor similar to mine (or can at least enjoy my jokes) -who can match me sundae for sundae, drink for drink and smoke for smoke! But of course these days it's politically incorrect to indulge yourself in such things, but you get my drift. It isn't required that you smoke, drink alcohol, or eat lots of sundaes; but it would be nice if we had one or two of these in common. I do need to get on thing out there just as an FYI: if you have issues (like being in recovery) I wish you the best, but I’m probably not the guy for you.I feel this is an important piece of info because I play in a couple bands: hence I spend a great deal of time in the company of bars. I am NOT an alcoholic or really even a heavy drinker, but have an exceptionally high tolerance for booze if I set my mind to it (and rarely but occasionally I do just that). Anyway, for some reason I’ve always been happiest around three feet of mahogany- either tending bar, or on a stool in front of it. Well as you just read I have some musical talent. I play the guitar mostly, but I've been known to tickle the ivories now and then. Also, I love to sing. when I was younger I was trained in opera, but after many, many, many cigarettes my range isn't what it used to be. But if the place where I'm singing isn't terribly huge, I can still be heard in the "cheap seats" without a mike.
My fashion style is casual and comfortable. I'll laugh at just about anything. My greatest guilty pleasure is occasional overindulging (just in the minor vices though). To me, the most important thing in life is happiness, and sharing it with an honest good woman. I think chemistry is immediate- but grows stronger and deeper over time.
Although the 1980’s and early 1990’s were the most influential musical years if my life, I listen to all types of music, everything from Mozart to James Taylor to Paul Simon (with and without Garfunkel) to Brad Paisley to Nickelback to The Lords of Acid to Puddle of Mudd to The Prodigy. However, I have yet to find anything else that seems to generate such immediate happiness the way a good rock and roll tune can.
I'm not a negative person- I prefer to see the glass as half full. I want to have things in common with a partner, but not everything. I am looking for someone who will accept me for me, someone to love unconditionally. Someone that is understanding and trustworthy. If you have that rare commodity called 'integrity' you're the kind of girl I'm looking for. Someone who is not too needy, but still shows me that she enjoys me being with me. Ultimately, I’d like to meet a genuinely NICE girl who is caring and believes that the golden rule is not obsolete. --A best friend who can be serious yet is really just a big goofball at heart. Communication is very important and I’m looking for someone who can be open and honest with their feelings.
My main attitude in life is spreading as much happiness and goodwill to everyone I come across. I find that the state of things in the world at present have a cumulative negative effect, which the outcome seems to be: causing as much misery on as many people as possible, or at least I feel that there is a growing general feeling of apathy towards one’s fellow man. It doesn't seem all that long ago that I was a totally different person with a very cynical and selfish outlook on life. I was taken advantage of- a lot- (I got screwed over- if you like plain English better); and that’s how I became jaded. My motto became: better to be the f*ck-er, than the one getting f*cked. I was a miserable SOB. Anyways, I was sick of the assh*le I had become and I knew I had to change. I remembered what I used to be like in my youth. People liked me back then. I was a nice guy who bent over backwards for anyone. The easiest way I knew to begin feeling good about myself was to be good to someone else and expect nothing in return. So from then on I vowed to do at LEAST one nice thing for a stranger everyday if I could- more than one. And I've got to tell you: I'm a better man for it! So I think it's no surprise that my ultimate goal is to help someone in such a way that it profoundly alters their life for the better. But while I'm waiting for that opportunity, I guess another (more modest) goal I have is to get my pilot's license back (VERY exspensive), because I really miss flying. Of course it goes without saying that I’d like to be sharing all this with a good woman. So let's see...what else about me?? --I don't really have any single friends, they're all pretty much in relationships (some more tenuous than others). I always feel like the proverbial "fifth wheel", even though they all say they like having me along. It sure would be nice to show up with someone holding my hand for a change, and to have them look adoringly into my eyes like I see all the other girlfriends/wives doing (at least when they're not arguing). If this sounds intriguing to you, then I hope to hear from you.



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I think starting off with a cup of coffee or perhaps a drink, in a public place where we would feel comfortable meeting while we begin getting to know each other is wise. After that It's your choice- I'm game for just about anything! Well, maybe not anything- I don't do line dancing...