I left this site awhile back as it seemed to me that this site was a way for people to have soical interaction but without ever really interacting in real time (never meeting). This was not my desire as I see this site as one more opportunity to potentially meet someone who MAY become a very special part of my life. I am back to try it again but I will be very upfront about what I want and do not want in my life. It is called being real and it is a healthy thing.

I face life through truth and realism. I am not pessimistic nor optimistic just very real and direct about things. I tend to see things as they are and move ahead to work through whatever I am facing.

I am someone interested in continuing to grow and surround myself with positive people. Look for the good in all because it is there; sometimes you have to look a little harder but it is there. I am a very passionate individual that enjoys a variety of activities from riding in the wind to dancing the night away to camping. I am a single mom with one son. Much of my life centers around his needs and activities, but I do make time for myself.

A Strong Woman
A Strong Woman Is one who feels deeply And loves fiercely,
Her tears flow Just as abundantly As her laughter.
A strong Woman Is both soft and powerful.
She is both Practical and spiritual.
A Strong woman In her essence is a gift to all the world.

I am definitely an underappreciated gift to the world. I prefer genuine and real people who can be comfortable in a variety of settings. Let's face it, we are all here in hopes of finding someone special and we are all special in our own way - we just have to find the one that can appreciate us for who we are. In the meantime, I am all about enjoying the journey and not worrying about the destination.

WHAT OTHERS HAVE TO SAY ABOUT ME:
"Your very fun to be around, your very pretty, and you have a great head on your shoulders. Your deffinetly a great catch. I just wasn't feeling a click but I'm not a very good dater lol. I would gladly write a testimonial for you. . . "PR

"You too...You mean to tell me your still single? A BEAUTIFUL woman on here and your still single, what's up with these guys around here? Have a great day."FM

"Just wanted to say. that you will be a true gift from GOD to some very blessed man!! Whoever let you slip through his fingers will spend the rest of his life regretting it!! I promise you that!!! LOL!! Your a very beautiful creation inside and out!!! You have a very blessed evening!!"JF

"That woman there, she is one damned good woman! A good woman." JS

By knowing who I am, I also know what I want in my life and what I do not want. The following is a list of do not wants. Do not take this as harsh but rather as someone who is not willing to settle for the next guy that comes along. I favor quality over quantity and my time is precious. Why should I waste my time or yours for that matter.

If you are a player, keep stepping. I don't play that way.
If you are an ***hole, keep rolling. I don't need you in my life.
If you are too nice and cannot stand up to me. Move on, I have enough doormats.
If you cannot be upfront and honest about who you are, go into acting. I will go to the theatre if I want to see an act.
If you cannot be a real man and step up to the plate; get out of the game.
Don't think of me as bitter or harsh, I just know what I want and do not want in my life. This is to be respected not frowned upon.

Something we both agree on. Hopefully somewhere where we can talk and learn about each other then we can take it from there.