I dance to the beat of my own drummer! Cool thing is, I have many rhythms in the mix, so come on and feel free to dance too!

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THOUGHTS TO THE POF EXPERIENCE!*
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*There's some cool people on this site, some crazy/drama heads, and some mean angry people bitter from their past relationships. My suggestion... If you're on here and "looking for love" freakin' be nice... talk... find a friend within a person. Don't assume you know... and don't doubt yourself not to ask and find out. JUST BE YOURSELF! And if yourself is a little off, be cool and chill out if someone isn't interested in you. It's not a big deal folks... there's plenty other fish in the sea. Besides... if it's meant to be... you're both gonna feel it! So... Keep that it mind ya dig!
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I am interested in a long-term relationship, & coming together. And the road in getting there has been great and fun, and so many wonderful lessons and blessings in this journey of life.
Friendship is key, so... time will always be made for it. That's where the foundation is built from, for me. For some it's instant for others it maybe a lifetime. So the experiences in getting there can be great and that's cool for the dating tip on things.

I love a confident person. Not arrogant, but simply, sure of themselves & knowing so because they know humility and therefore approach life with being humble. That's a fantastic quality in which I admire of others.
It's very attractive to me when someone knows what they want. So dating, it's great, but ultimately I'm in for the long haul! Life's too short to live with regret & fear.

I'm all about getting to know someone and go from there... Sometime's it can be right off the bat. You know those intense moments of the pitter-patter, but gosh... ya just have to yield a bit & remain open to see if it's too good to be true of the real deal!

I have a rule about becoming physically intimate with someone. If you make the grade, you'll achieve! I'm the "relationship" gal! Oy vey! It's true! I don't "hook-up" so that one night stand or even two month/10 dates thing hold out deal to then explode doesn't hold a ton of interest. But truthfully sometimes things are right they're right, so... the wait can make it greater perhaps, perhaps!

I (WE ALL) deserve someone who understands the dynamics to a partnership. Not just the actions but the whole complete partnership of a relationship. Spirit, Mind, Soul, Body. All of it & yes I do want it & need it certainly. You give & you receive back you know. So the more you put in, the more you will get out!
There's good days, there's bad days, there's days, there's amazing days and much more... It's how you handle it, how you develop & maintain, grow, and build that really tells me that I've found that final piece of the whole package to human reciprocity in this wonderful world of the "Love Life".

I couldn't imagine not walking this life with my best-friend, my partner that completes me in the full sense of the word and areas of romance as well. Absolutely, I too want to be that completion to another!

Everyday to fall in love with love all over again is brilliant.
To fall in love more and more everyday and have that love given back...
That's Awesome!

Big on the whole tip to communication, so... I must say this, if you don't like talking, exploring the mind, philosophy, and sometimes just being able to be silent and enjoy in that space, well... I may be too much for you to handle!

And certainly I'm not afraid to put it out there, I love great sex! Who doesn't? I bring love up & in with : Honesty, Commitment, Understanding, Patience, Loyalty, Faithfulness, Laughter, Joy, Goals, Dreams, & so much more! It goes on and on, just like I do. I guess you could say I'm like the Energizer Bunny then. LOL!

I think you have the picture! I am in the mind-set & belief that I would like someone to grow with in many ways. That's what works for me! I believe that's healthy, so... It's a good thing! I don't need drama! I don't have time for negative junk, always try to keep the sunshine bright on my own head too! No really we're all healing, have a little work to do on ourselves and each other and I'm all about the positive sides to it all. But drama & conflict I'm not interested in at all! so... please kick that out before you contact me.

IM: browneyedgirl76 at ymail . com

Thanks! Happy Fishing!

I am pretty spontaneous, but... I would probably temper that for the first date. Uhm... Dinner, music, dancing, perhaps karaoke. Food is based on the obvious likes of the one I'm an enjoying the date with. HOWEVER... I'm a vegetarian... so if you're wanting to eat the meat... go all out and do you're thing. Most likely it'll be a hand shake, high 5, or hug at the end of that date. Otherwise bring a toothbrush. LOL!

Okay, let me think... hmmm ... a date for the day/evening or why not a combo right!

*Local-If it goes well...
Let's see... Walking and talking through the gardens or a park, maybe a forest, or the city (a late afternoon thing so that the sun starts setting by the time we are ready to dine), dinner maybe some live music, or possibly a funny, romantic easy & relaxing movie, maybe a comedy house, or... yes... a walk around the lake at night, by my side. Yep! Who knows... maybe even roller-derby or a rodeo, a hike or biking at a park... Whatever is clever! I like variety, it's rather hard for me to be definite when it comes to the fun choices of life.

You know really, that first date is about getting to know someone a bit, so it's not like you want to go in a space where there's too much energy, but then again, if it's not going so well... it's not like anyone wants to be rude and not be able to talk. And I'll be cool about it, because I obviously have 0 issues with being a Chatty Kathy. LOL! Nah... sometimes it just doesn't click, someone may be a better friend then potential dating companion, life partner. So if it's going well... we'll do what feels right & if not so well, we'll make the best of it and I'll certainly let you know from my end, so let me know too. Ya dig!

I think that's the point... Life has choices... so choose it up and live it up & have fun doing it!
*Travel Date-Let's go!!!