I am 53, 5'11", weigh around 165 pounds, have brown eyes and brown hair searching for a rainbow to love. I am an open minded extroverted, free-spirited, and an independent gentleman.

I do a lot of exercise and am in good shape. You can use your imagination that I am warm, soft, sweet and appealing. I have an open mind and am a free-spirited gentleman with plenty of love and affection to share.

I love and find it a challenge to be creative in various situations and am emotionally-open. I really appreciate a woman who appreciates me and makes me feel special. I enjoy and like people who are passionate, off-beat and have a loving heart. Weather or not we are together, I would love you forever and ever. Every day is a beautiful day so don't let it get away.

I have a healthy dose of self-confidence as a sharing leader at home or work. I am a self-starter with a willingness to take risks and will always volunteer to take on a job spreading enthusiasm to others. My work headquarters is in Manhattan, but usually work in the Monmouth County area most of the time for a large federal organization. I would like to emphasize that I am flexible like Gumby and horse Pokey. I have a Pokey on my dresser to remind me to ride on and roll with life.

I won't confirm or deny that I am affectionate, educated, intelligent, with whom you can engage in interesting conversations. Am financially and emotionally secure. I reside at my house near a large park in a nice section of Neptune at the Jersey Shore, but am flexible to move. I have traveled to many unusual distant lands. I'm a friendly gentleman and can be funny too.

What are you looking for in a partner?

I am seeking someone with or without children who would truly want me around where adoration, encouragement, forgiveness, fun, intimacy, love and warmth are consistent. Of course everyone needs their space, but when two are together I feel a loving intimate family synergistic teamwork approach works the best. One ox can pull 10,000 pounds but 2 can exponentially pull 30,000 to 50,000 pounds. Therefore, maybe we can pull together.

Im searching for a rainbow, so if the wind ever shows me where to go, hopefully youll be waiting at the end and then I'll know. I will reply to all those looking for a pot of gold. Remember, when there is rain, there is rainbow above.

I will reply to all....

1. Meet for coffee and see what the chemistry is........

2. Then, meet for dinner and / or take a walk, etc...