I am currently single but, not. I wish they had better selections here to explain that. I'm polyamorous (meaning multiple loves, not indiscriminate sex or swinging) and although I often have multiple relationships at the same time I have only one at the moment, a bisexual woman I have been dating for about a year.
Our relationship is very open and honest and we both believe the more love the better. We also believe in full disclosure about our relationships with everyone involved. Everyone meeting and becoming friends would be preferred.

That does NOT mean I am looking for a third or we are asking for someone to join us in a threesome. Our relationships with others are independent of our relationship together. They may overlap and they may not, but there are no requirements beyond honesty and full disclosure.

Questions? Please ask. I believe in open, honest communication at all times and that each and every relationship is defined by the people involved. I enjoy discussing polyamory and making new friends so I don't make assumptions that any messages I send/receive are only focused on creating a romantic relationship.

I have physical custody of my two kids so they are with me except every other weekend. (14 yr old girl, 11 yr old boy). So, I do have time without kids and will make time for someone I want to see. Yes, I smoke, but not in the house, I try to be considerate. Not to be rude but if those things bother you an online friendship is likely all that is possible.

More about me. . .
I'm an avid reader. Right now I am in school so textbooks are my focus. When not in school I love reading different theological based books, papers, opinions, etc. I do quite a bit of online reading. I also enjoy writing when I have time, I blog quite a bit and enjoy the wealth of information on the internet.

I'm also a movie addict. I will watch just about anything but prefer current movies with a fondness for sci-fi, horror, and thrillers. I also enjoy cooking, working in the yard, motorcycles, camping during the summer both with and without my kids, and traveling to mexico when I can. I love music of many flavors. Zeppelin, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Tori Amos, Concrete Blonde, most 80's and blues.

I'm a terminally happy person. Stuff that gets a lot of people down won't get me down. I believe that being happy lets you be happy and focusing on that instead of the bad junk helps keep you happy.

Those who know me usually say I'm very mellow, easy to get along with, and have a great sense of humor. I've been told by those I've had loving relationships with that they have never had the high level of communication with other loves that they have with me, nor the openness and honesty.

So, make a friend, send a message and we'll see what happens!
Or, if you are interested in the swing or poly lifestyle, check out this site I'm trying to help promote: www.Lifestylevibes.com
Maybe I'll see you there!

I can think of a lot of things but probably just meeting at a park or coffee shop for a first meeting. Something where we could explore our common interests since I really enjoy just sitting, talking, getting to know a person.
Then, if you are comfortable I'm not a psycho axe murderer and I'm comfortable you aren't going to drug me and steal my kidneys we could get dinner, ice cream, or find something else we'd both like to do.