So who am I? I'll let you know when I figure it out.

So what am I looking for? At this point I'm pretty much open to anything. I'm single and enjoying making new friends and finding some romance here and there. Hanging out, friends, long-term, casual, lets talk and see what happens.
I'm not in a hurry to find my forever. I'm perfectly happy taking time to make sure things are right for both people. I'm open to alternative relationships and lifestyles, such as polyamory, poly-fidelity, and non-monogamy as well as traditionally defined monogamous relationships. Questions? Please ask. I believe in open, honest communication at all times and that each and every relationship is defined by the people involved.

I'd say that in my relationships there isn't a huge fireworks finale but rather a steady burning flame that is there every day.

There is something I realized was missing here; I won't chase you until I know you are interested. I've learned the hard way that chasing a pretty face or someone unsure of what they want only gets you something neither of you will ever be happy with. I only send one e-mail to a lady to initiate contact. No response, I'll know you aren't interested and won't bother you anymore. And no ALWAYS means no, so if you tell me NO, mean it because I won't try to change your mind. It isn't that I don't care, I'm just not into pressuring women that way.

I have physical custody of my two kids so they are with me except every other weekend. (13 yr old girl, 10 yr old boy). So, I do have time without kids and will make time for someone I want to see. Yes, I smoke, but not in the house, I try to be considerate and would like to quit but haven't had much success yet. I hate to say it but, if either of those things bother you we may be wasting our time trying to be any more than casual friends.

On a side note, I have no sense of humor. I lost it in a horrible toothpaste accident in 1987. Please don't ask, it is much to painful to talk about.

*Ever wonder what the guy who invented contact lenses was thinking?? "Hey Igor, bring me those shards of plastic so I can put them in my eyes!" Yikes

*That 70's Show. I'm not a big tv watcher but that show just reminds me of when I was younger in so many ways. And no matter how many times I hear it, hearing Red call one of the kids a 'dumbass' is funny!!

*Are you limited by the love your heart can earn or the love your soul can spend?

*When I work from home and the tv is on I can't help but watch when Jerry Springer comes on. It makes me feel normal.

*I love Halloween, Easter, V-Day. My kids get candy and at night I raid their piles!

*Angelina Jolie is freakin' sexy as hell!! I also wouldn't "do her" with a full body condom and a gallon of antiseptic.

*I've dated all sizes of women but not flavors. (I guess I'm to much of a typical looking white boy for ladies of other races?) Physical just doesn't matter as much as the heart, mind, soul, and sexual appetite.

*I like writing. Send me a two line e-mail and see what you get back. If you don't want to read for an hour, don't e-mail me.

*I love movies and dislike regular tv. I don't have cable, satellite, dish tv, tivo, any of that junk. I have a vcr and dvd player and watch movies. I have sold my soul to Netflix, and it is goooooooooood!!

*I have 6 PC's and a laptop, I'm a computer geek for a living and a hobby. I know how to turn them off and walk away when I'm burnt. I also know how to live with my insomnia and will stay up half the night writing, chatting, surfing and etc.

*I don't drive if I can avoid it. I hate traffic in town. Get me out on the highway and I'll drive forever. Bring a jar if you want potty breaks.

*My theory on longevity. A Twinkie and a shot of Tequila daily. The tequila will kill all the germs in your body so you don't get sick and the Twinkie has enough preservatives that you should live to be 130 yrs old. So far so good, I'll let you know if it doesn't work.

*I love to lay on a picnic table at night when camping and stare at the stars. They say the ones that are moving are satellites but I don't believe them. Government cover-up comes to mind.

*Did I mention I believe in life on other planets. Yep, I do.

*Time-travel. Wow. Mind blowing. Enough said.

*Lacy, frilly, see-through, butt-floss type negligee's? No thanks. Long, silky, no lace, slinky, classy negligee's? Heavens yes!!!

*Levi's are in need of a redesign. Think about it: 1 PDA, 1 cell phone, 1 wallet, 1 set of keys = all 4 pockets on my Levi's are full. What do I do with my pack of mints, stick them behind my ear??

I can think of a lot of things but probably just meeting at a park, sitting and talking or walking would be great. Something where we could talk and explore our common interests since I really enjoy just sitting, talking, getting to know a person.
Then, if you are comfortable I'm not a psycho axe murderer and I'm comfortable you aren't going to drug me and steal my kidneys we could get dinner, ice cream, or find something else we'd both like to do.

Female
Age between 25 and 50
Live in United States