I am still looking to find the girl of my dreams...sweet dreams....rather than nightmare...so fingers crossed. I was going to throw the towel in on all this on line dating but for ever the optimist ill leave my profile on here.

Ive decided to be very honest and say what im looking for and what im not looking for as reading alot of your profiles your trying to do the same.

If you are between 25 and 37 and looking for a long term relationship, then please drop me a line. Ive only just moved over to France in March of 2006, the UK im finding is depressing and it appears to be getting worse.I would hope that who ever does want to get in touch with me, would not mind moving to France if we click in the future. In between time i can assure meny great weekends away getting to know one another and to see what France has to offer. Also i would love to have a family in the future..its all part of the French dream...getting back to basics and enjoying a family life.

Well...i dont think i can get any more honest than the above....lets see if im any luckier.

If anyone is interested while living in France i let a holiday cottage for details:www.laforgebrittanyholidaycottage.iowners.net



Im a former natural body builder that no longer competes but still enjoys the gym 4 or 5 days a week to hold back the clock. picture enclosed was my last show. so please dont expect someone looking like Van Dame.lol.. being natural i loose 4 stone for a show...so anyone for a workout...just built my own gym so no excuses now.The life guard pic was taken august 07, a mate came over and we had a competition who was willing to wear the worst trunks on the beach, i won but the scary part is that the trunks in the pic were not the winning trunks..lol. I enjoy scuba diving and love exotic holidays. A goal i wish to acheive within the next year or so is to swim with whale sharks, back in the maldives.

Very into positive thinking and NLP. Ive come from a managerial background running a sales team where i used to travel the country giving motivational talks to the rest of the company, used to get a real rush standing up infront of a few hundred people and doing my stuff.

Im abit of a dab hand in the kitchen....still cant belive that as yet ive never been with anyone that can cook...what a nice change that would be.

Ive been interested in art for some time now and bought myself some acrylic paints and some canvases this christmas, so attempting to get Arty farty this summer myself.

I guess from the above you can see im not your typical guy that throws weights around, so why not give me a try.


I would like to wish that everyone finds what they are looking for and good luck for the future.

Had to put this on! just read it on someone's profile:

Police are warning all men who frequent clubs & pubs to be alert and stay cautious when offered a drink from any woman.

Many females use a date rape drug on the market called "Beer".

The drug is found in liquid form and is available anywhere. It comes in bottles, cans, or from taps and in large "kegs". Beer is used by female sexual predators at parties and bars to persuade their male victims to go home and sleep with them.


A woman needs only to get a guy to consume a few units of Beer and then simply ask him home for no strings attached sex.

Men are rendered helpless against this approach. After several beers, men will often succumb to the desires to sleep with horrific looking women whom they would never normally be attracted.

After drinking beer, men often awaken with only hazy memories of exactly what happened to them the night before, often with just a vague feeling that "something bad" occurred.

At other times these unfortunate men are swindled out of their life's savings, in a familiar scam known as "a relationship".

In extreme cases, the female may even be shrewd enough to entrap the unsuspecting male into a longer term form of servitude and punishment referred to as "marriage." Men are much more susceptible to this scam after beer is administered and *** is offered by the predatory females.

If you fall victim to this "Beer" scam and the women administering it, there are male support groups where you can discuss the details of your shocking encounter with similarly victimized men.

For support groups near you, just look up "Golf Courses" or "Public houses" in the phone book

A question for all you girls:

Is this really true?

A recent scientific study found that women find different male faces attractive depending on where they are in their menstrual cycle.
For example, when a woman is ovulating she will prefer a man with rugged, masculine features.
However when she is menstruating, she prefers a man doused in petrol and set on fire, with scissors stuck in his eye and a cricket stump shoved up his backside.

Enjoyed finding the above, hope you did also and good luck with your search.

Nice romantic meal in a great restaurant