I'd like to meet a "real woman"-- who's honest, mature, intelligent, well read, articulate, well traveled, ideally well educated, reasonably fit and accomplished who has adequate reality testing and a practiced sense of ethics and fair play. One who is looking for a fulfilling, egalitarian relationship--not one who's seeking a benefactor or "daddy". One who grew up while getting older, but is still fun. One who despite considerable intellectual and other assets, has retained at least a bit of humility and doesn't take herself too seriously. I'd also want her to be at least somewhat visually appealing to me, have some type of residence, positive (financial) net worth, and some type of income. All that and she's got to like me! I don't ask for what I can't offer in return -- I'm educated, at least marginally accomplished (listed in two Who's Who publications), reasonably bright (Mensa), and trustworthy (have held a Top Secret clearance). Not boasting, just stating facts. A bit overweight (abs not as well articulated as I would like), but losing the winter weight. Have worked out 5-6 days/week since age 13. As for visually appealing, well, that's in the eye of the beholder. Have done a few things and been a few places. I'm also a financially solvent, employed homeowner. Oh, and if audience comments are a valid indicator, I'm apparently pretty entertaining, too. Also an easy to talk with, down to earth, basic type of person. Looking for LTR with the right woman.

I enjoy many types of activities, including but not limited to: travel (day trips and distant travel), movies, local festivals/concerts, museums, live theater, fitness activities, volunteer work, quasi genteel camping, canoe trips. Having tried both, I can say with the utmost confidence that I do not surf or ski!

People should be honest with themselves about what they want in a partner and what they have to offer in return (see below).

I wouldn't know until I talk with my date to find out what we would both enjoy.

I'm confident there are at least a few women on this site who are who they say they are, mean what they say, say what they mean, and whose behaviors are consistent with their stated values--unfortunately, I have yet to meet anyone on this site who's functioning at that level. If you're one of the (apparently) precious few who is, I encourage you to contact me. (I'm beginning to wonder if this site should be called Plentyofflakesfakes&frauds).

Ladies--Here's a simple method to keep guys you wouldn't be interested in from contacting you:

1. Be honest about what you're looking for. For example, if you're seeking a tall, GQ type hunk who's also wealthy, intelligent, witty, considerate, generous and kind, say so. Don't just say that the only thing that's really important is that they make you laugh, etc.

2. Consider what you have to offer in return. If you're looking for the previously mentioned hunk who has everything, do you possess commensurate levels of physical attractiveness, wealth, intelligence, etc.? If not, do you possess other characteristics that would compensate for the imbalance (and that "Mr. Hunk" would perceive and appreciate)? Life's a trade off.

People generally are happiest with a significant other who is similar to them in most areas.

I find it ironic (and sadly amusing) that there are many women who criticize men for being "shallow" and overly concerned about women's physical attributes who would never even consider dating a man shorter than they are.