I guess it might be important to mention that I am a bit of a whirlwind sometimes...I like to live on the edge of chaos-it's the best way to get a lot done-but at the same time, that means I'm pretty laid back and open to the possibilities life presents to me. I'm no good on this pof thing and am looking for someone who has a great idea how to take it live and off the screen.
1) I am a yoga junkie...there is no lapsing with this passion and I love what's happening with my body!
2) Great food can be good for you! If you don't like onions and peppers and pick the veggies out of meals that have been lovingly and thoughtfully prepared for you, I am not interested!! I have 2 kids already!
3) I am always interested in evolving and progressing in this world-if you are too, could be with your career, your finances, your soul, your passions-let's talk!
4) Are you a take-charge kind of guy? Strong gals like me actually crave someone who can take care as well as be taken care of. caveat: there is a huge difference between strong and power-hungry. I am not the second, nor are you!
5) I have given up coaching soccer as my son has surpassed me. Still play, still love it.
6) My kids have grown into incredible humans beings I enjoy and am proud of-and now there's lots of me time (re: me and you time)



Do you actually like to have fun but can balance it with a good book, and discussion?


Me-I'm funny, yet sincere, beautiful and curvy, extroverted, but I can get tongue-tied around someone special. I coach soccer, exercise regularly, but lapse regularly too. I am a lover of words, and music. Been traveling quite a lot the last couple of years-most recently to Peru and Costa Rica. I like to go either really fast or really slow. I'm either planted reading, or doing about 4 things at once.

What else? I am super independent but am ready to let a man to draw me in. I am a very caring and affectionate partner. I love to get dressed up and hit a great restaurant or wine show, but also enjoy the lakeside cottage life. To me, there's a big difference between camping and going to the lake. B.C's where it's at for summer vacations! If you want to know more, feel free to ask!

About who I'd like to date? I'd like to meet someone who can enjoy a little quiet time, yet encourage the trouble maker in me. Make me laugh, try something new. I'm game, just need the suggestion. The man I'm looking for is secure with himself and happy with the life he is pursuing. He has balanced the doing with the dreaming. He is charming yet sincere and very intelligent. He must turn on my mind first (but not last). He should be sure of what he wants out of life (even if he's not sure what he wants in a partner). You understand that the choices I've made to be a good mother and provider are to be honored and trust that I will make enough time for you too. I find spontaneous moments of freedom in my life and want someone to take advantage of them with. A social confidence is very sexy to me, so we can go out on the town without the crowds getting us down. Someone without a skewed sense of perfection would be lovely, too! Besides all that, I'd like someone that has something to say without being totally self-absorbed, someone generous but not overbearing and someone who can intrigue me! -oh and love handles wouldn't be the end of the world either- There's my wish list! Last but not least you must be KIND!
Ps as far as religion is concerned, I would more accurately put: Spiritual but not religious, but it's not an option.

hmm...a good first date is dinner and great conversation, followed by a social activity like, dancing or theater, or a concert, maybe even the casino, something that allows for interaction with others and spontaneity. I think something that allows you to see how the one you're out with treats others is a good situation as well as it give you a chance to be charming and make me laugh!!!