*** The girl in the picture is my niece not my daughter. I do not have children. ***

*NOTE* My profile says I do not want children, however I am willing to consider the possibility if the right person and circumstances come along! You will have to get to know me to find out more!
Dislikes:
Instructional movies (aka: horror movies). It gives really good idea's to really bad people, Stupidity, intelligent women who act like bubble heads to impress guys, ignorance, large crowds (I deal with them but still dislike them), lack of common sense, snobby attitudes, rude people, lack of courtesy, oil companies, phonies, con artists, gold diggers, mind games, 'leet' speak, Spelling errors (I am a terrible speller! However I am intelligent enough to hit the spell check button), Cancer.

Wants, goals, dreams:
I want to learn how to fence, I want to take some psychology courses, I want to buy a farm. I want to convert an older BMW into a functional and practical electric car! I want to become a better poker player. I want to sit at a poker championship table with other pro's knowing I belong there! I want to find someone who will push me to try new things. I want to build a dream home on a farm! I would like to own a vacation home in Buenos Aires. I want to get my body back in shape. I want to kick life's ass and take names!

Glimpse of my personality
I tend not to worry about things. If it is something that can be changed, I change it and do not worry. If it is something that is beyond my control to change, then why should I worry about it? Family and friends are very important to my life and I would never give them up for anyone! Children and animals gravitate towards me. I am highly independent and enjoy “me” time with my friends. That being said, my friends, however, are very different from the norm. Girl-friends/wives/Significant others are always invited along if it is something they are interested in doing with us. What can I say, I choose my friends wisely. I have very few inhibitions, (4 to date). If your lucky enough you will find out what is not on that list! Please note I do reserve the right to add to this list without trying something first. (I am not a prude but Hey! It is possible, though highly improbable, that someone might actually be more warped than my imagination) --- My quirky sense of humor. Thought I would explain that for those who just don't get it! Those who do get it, you are my type of woman and why are you waiting to email me.

You should contact me if you are:
- intelligent, witty, wise, sexy with a dash of sarcasm on the side.
- independent but want to share quality time with someone interesting and unique.
- willing to push me to reach my potential and let me push you to reach yours.
- adventurous and are willing to try new things with me that neither of us have done.
- truly a beautiful person. (see things I have finally learned down below for explanation)
- comfortable with your own body regardless of flaws, imperfections or body type!
- willing to be challenged and challenge me in return.
- competitive and enjoy winning at everything you do.
- able to accept defeat with dignity and grace but still hate to lose!
- willing to discuss, create and realize every single one of your sexual fantasies and mine! (Spark in the bedroom makes for a long and healthy relationship).
- Willing to tell me what turns you on, what turns you off, what you really like and what you don't.
- able to enjoy foreplay as much as sex itself
- willing to lose yourself with me as I would with you!
- willing to help each other lead a healthy and balanced lifestyle!
- faithful!


Odds and Ends

Be aware I am more than happy being on my own. I do not “need” someone in my life but I would “like” someone . That being said I think my life would be enriched by the right person. I believe I have a lot to offer and the only way you are going to find that out is by contacting me or contacting me back!

Although my profile mentions sex I do not need it! I am not going to sleep with you on a first date or possible even during the dating phase of a relationship unless I am sure we are both comfortable with it and i think there is a potential for the relationship to go somewhere! I do however believe that any true long term relationship requires a healthy sex life. In order to have a healthy sex life you need to be able to discuss sex with me without embarrassment. If you cannot discuss sex, your fantasies, what you like/dislike, things you will/will not do without embarrassment, your not the girl for me! To be honest if you are unable to discuss sex with your partner you probably shouldn't be having it to begin with or your with the wrong guy!

My profile states that I am a professional poker player. This is true though I have taken a sabbatical to do some renovations. Once my renovations are complete I will be going back to tournament poker. It is something I have become very good at, thoroughly enjoy and find very fulfilling. I have become a master of building and maintaining a bankroll while putting aside money for living expenses and things I want. If this is something that bothers you please don't pass me by. Talk to me and ask questions; I have no problems with doing that. Be aware that poker is gambling. A good player can always play perfect and still lose in the short term. However a true professional will always turn a profit in the long term! After all is said and done, if you cannot get over the fact I like to play poker for a living you might be happier moving on to the next profile.


Things I have finally learned

I finally understand the difference between a woman who is hot and a woman that is beautiful. A woman who is beautiful is comfortable in their own skin regardless of their shape, height or weight. Their beauty comes from within as well as well as out. They understand who they are and do not let the opinions of others weigh them down. Their personality will always find a way to shine through and show its beauty. They will enrich anyone's life who comes in contact with them. Every single woman on earth has the potential to be beautiful. The sad fact is that many let their personalities or lack thereof get in the way. Women who think they are are hot think that they are better than everyone else. They are the women who turn their noses down at anything they feel is beneath them. To them looks/money are more important than substance. If this section offended you, you now know your a hottie. Good news every single hottie has the potential to become beautiful so all is not lost. Find your inner geek, nerd, chi or what ever you want to call it! Once you do a whole other world will open to you. If you are still offended well you might want to go on to the next profile.