I'm a walking contradiction who is ruled by her emotions. I like to see the good in everyone and can be both trusting and nieve. I love to love and I do everything passionitly from fighting to kissing to talking and singing ( I cannot carry a note. although it gets better when I'm drunk ) I love to dance. I love to read , I love jazz music and alot of the old stuff they play on AM 740 however I love all kinds of music..Especially the nights I'm blessed to listen to live music .
I have done alot in my almost 23 years. I have seen alot that has changed my perception of this world from wonder to disgust. I am not bitter though. The right kind of snow still brings a glitter to my bright green eyes and a torential down pouring of rain in july or august deserves a dance in the rain.
I am a hopeless romantic. and I am looking for the same or someone tolerent of the nonsence that I sometimes talk about.
I am driven by a need to survive. A constant need to improve myself and a need to learn .
I have an absolutly beautiful son named Bam. he is my world. I am a single mom , I don't mind it , his father and I just fell apart and decided this was for the best. theres no animostity. No drama.
Anything more I'm sure you can ask. I am stubborn and set in my ways and thats just the way it will always be. I am looking for someone who can keep up to my fast pace but still get the fact that I'm not really into club hopping much anymore . I'd rather a quiet bistro with a cup of coffee or green tea and some interesting conversation. However if It is any interest to you ? I like to hit the pipe. if you can't handle that .... thats cool too... I don't do it everyday..or during the day.. its an evening relaxation thing...


If You Made it This Far, Make sure you fit into the following. Im not into casual hook ups , I don't do casual sex and I don't need a sugar daddy. and please no long distance .. an hour away is as far as Im willing to go. take care

NOT OVER THE AGE OF 35 - yes It's updated.
DON'T BE IN A RELATIONSHIP - THATS WRONG
DON'T BE LOOKING FOR A GOLD DIGGER OR ON THE OTHER END A SUGAR MOMMA ,I'LL COVER ME.
I DON'T WANT CASUAL SEX . IT'S NOT GONNA HAPPEN.
I DON'T DO PORN OR WEIRD FETISH PICTURES.
I DON'T EVEN DO FETISH PICTURES!!!!!
HAVE A PERSONALITY
A SENCE OF HUMOR
LISTEN
BE FUN
DON'T BE LAZY
HAVE A JOB
USE DEODERANT AND SHOWER DAILY.
HAVE YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT
DON'T EXPECT ME TO CHANGE FOR U
I DO LIKE GOING OUT EVERY ONCE IN AWHILE SO U MUST LIKE GOING OUT MAYBE ONCE A MONTH .
NO HUNTING. IT'S NOT RIGHT
IF YOU OWN A GUN OR A WEAPON LEAVE. (UNLESS YOUR A COP AND THEN ONLY YOUR ON DUTY PIECE)
IF YOU'RE A 'GANSTA' PEACE OUT . BEEN THERE DONE THAT , HAVE THE SCARS TO PROVE IT.
IF YOU'VE EVER HIT A WOMAN , HERE'S YOUR TICKET. LEAVE.
MSG ME WITH MORE THEN HEY. IT'S THE ORIGINAL EMAILS OR MORE THAN 'UR CUTE' THAT GET MY ATTENTION
DRUG DEALING? LEAVE. HUSTLER? LEAVE. CRIMINAL ? LEAVE. BEEN THERE DONE THAT TOO
I'M LOOKING FOR A NICE GUY. THAT MEANS NO CHEATING, LYING OR STEALING.
UNDERSTAND YES I HAVE A SON , HE'S AWESOME. IM NOT LOOKING FOR A NEW DADDY , HOWEVER YOU MUST LIKE KIDS .
Ok about me.
I'm 22 . I'm five foot nothing and have brown hair and eerily green eyes. I have 16 piercings ( Eyebrow , Toungue ,Nose (both sides), Lebret , Bellybutton ,monroe and a few in my ears..and two others that are not first date material ;) 5 tattoos (three on my back two on my wrist....soon to be 6 with the other two on my other wrist ) ..I like writing poetry ,dancing, going out for coffee and watching movies in comfy track pants and spagetti straps.
I can be a joker. I can also be sarcastic .It mostly happens with other girls and mainly when I feel I have something to prove. Other then that I'm pretty laid back.

Yes I live in oshawa ...I don't know many people here either .I'm A Pickering girl . I keep to myself and don't talk to strangers.

Anything else you can ask , Im pretty open about my life.

Wow.... umm I'm the princess of randomness... usually coffee. but I'm up to anything.
ALSO don't answer your phone on the first date ...unless there's an emergency. It's rude. If your out for coffee with me I expect your attention ( that's why were out isn't it ? to get to know eachother ? I have a cell too and if it rings and I answer it ,it's mostly cause I'm not interested in you and I'll take it your doing the same for the same reason )

WALL OF SHAME

THE FOLLOWING WAS A MSG SENT TO ME. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'M TALKIN ABOUT NOT SENDING ME. THIS IS POSTED SO NO ONE MAKES A COLASSAL MISTAKE LIKE THIS ONE
Hear me out on this, ok ok... so I just got a bunch of free packets of Cold-FX extra from the beer store. Anyway, when I take it (it's pure ginsing - expensive) I get hard for 2+ hours... numb hard. So if you want it really really nice, nice nice ;) then I'm serious here. I'm clean, big, and very fit, and just want to pleasure you to the max" ....