Divorced and single again for the first time in my adult life. Living in my hometown again after 20+ years. Very confident, secure home owner, not into games or one night stands. Honesty is a virtue,and is missing from alot of people these days....it is not a given until proven. I had the storybook, the ending just turned out to be horror instead of romance.LoL. Find it hard to meet people in this small town. I work 45 minutes from here and meeting people on the highway is not an option.
If you want to know ask..... Patience is a virtue that it seems many people don't have. I know I am guilty as well, but please don't email me with an instant connection, when I know you not. I am looking to connect with someone on the inside as well as the outside. I am not and I repeat not on here to "hook up", if I meet someone and something happens great, but if that is what you are looking for, knock elsewhere please... Ever wonder how many people judge a book by it's cover?

On a first date it is a time to get to know each other, or try to. I can tell alot about someone from eye contact..the eyes are the windows to the soul after all. Chemistry is very important, and there should be some spark regardless of how small. A neutral place that is public would be ideal for a first date using this medium. Safety first.....