I currently live in Kansas City, but I'm moving to Sacramento the first or second week of August. I'm also coming off of kindof a long relationship so for the time being I'm just looking to find some people to get to know and hang out with.

I have alot of interests that I play at back and forth depending on my mood. I love computers. I sketch and paint on occasion, and I love to write. I love movies, music, driving fast and reading good mysteries. I like to go out to movies, concerts, dinner, dancing (sometimes), comedy clubs, and for walks, but usually I can be found inside on the computer or in my clawfoot.

I've never been married and I don't have any children. I have a huge family both in town and out of town and I like to spend time with them when I can. I have one dog and one cat, and I foster dogs on occasion (usually Saint Bernards, so if you can't handle the big dogs don't bother coming over lol).

I'm self employed. I contract customer and tech support work for different companies and I prefer having my time open. I'm not a serious planner, and probably never will be.

I have no interest in jumping into a relationship, or a sexual relationship. The friendship has to be there. I need someone who is willing to do what it takes; take the time to get to know me, and who will be honest and open enough to let me do the same. I'm a good listener, and I'm looking for the same. I basically want a best friend that I can't stop touching. I want what every woman wants... a man who can be funny, intelligent, and sweet without being wimpy. I want a real man who treats me like a real woman.

That said, I give my all to relationships. I'm extremely passionate, loyal, and honest to a fault. I'm not a small girl, so if you're looking for a barbie or a beach bunny keep looking and good luck. I'm a bit sarcastic and I love to laugh so a sense of humour is a must.

I have met a few great people on here, and a couple of... err... interesting ones lol. I still haven't found "it" yet, but I'm willing to look as long as it takes and otherwise I'm a great friend to have. I'm just not willing to give up my soulmate for anyone I know is not.

This would depend entirely on the person I am going out with. I suppose it would have to be something mutually agreeable that would allow for conversation. I like to get to know people as much as possible upfront.... learn who they are, what they like, and what they dislike... where they come from and where they want to end up.