Hey just looking to meet a cool guy who is sexy, sweet and honest. I am a professional, educated. attractive 41 year old female. I love a man with an intelligent mind, who is a great conversationalist, who can also be the manly man & sweep me off my feet with a sensual kiss. I have many interests and just looking to find CHEMISTRY with someone to enjoy the finer things and the simple things in life. If you are attractive, active, honest and have a good sense of humor I would love to hear from you.

Often asked:: "What are you looking for?" I have no specific definition of a relationship that I am looking to establish. I am happy with my life and looking for a man to compliment my life rather than complete it.


UPDATE::: Hey all you young guys-----I do not want to be your cougar experience---please don't even try, it is a waste of your time, why not try www.wildcougarsdocubs.com........
Also not into casual sex, hook ups, not my thing, if that's yours please keep fishing


UPDATE 2::::: I have changed the age restriction to elevate what I call "cougar hunt"....lol......this has helped!! Please read my profile and do not contact me if you are looking just to hook up!!! I think I have stated it very clearly, no one stands, no booty calls, no married men..........so please please read the fine print or the bold in this case!!! Thanks, I am very busy and do not want to waste my time on nonsense..........oh and no matter how good you make think........you are.....you ain't getting it on the first date or second.......LOL!!!

UPDATE 3: Please be honest about yourself, physical deception clearly will be found out........and is like "hello" I don't notice that you are 100 pounds heavier than what your pictures reveal. I am 5'4 1/2 and 165-170, a curvy girl, reality of who you are is greatly appreciated. Once again, I am looking truly to date, bring back the romance!!! If your a serial dater, constant I think the grass may be greener on the other side or have not checked your baggage and still utilize it as carry on......you need someone different than myself. There is nothing more unattractive than someone who does not enjoy life and miserable........get a therapist PLEASE!!!

DEAL BREAKERS:::
1) If you wear a football jersey tucked in with Jerry Seinfeld tight Levis

2) If you are an avid NASCAR fan

3) if your idea of fine dining is Subway

4) If your idea of physical fitness is finger lifts out of the potato chip bag

5) If you are a teabagger, in the political sense that is or in the other sense you are more than likely on the wrong website........which the right one may be iliketeanotreallyjustbagging.com

6) If you think George Bush is the man, if you voted for George Bush and regret it, we're cool!!!

Moved to Chicago from Connecticut for business. Would love to have dinner,drinks, dancing, movies, walks in the park, going to sporting events with a true gentleman who has a touch of a crazy and wild side who loves to laugh and enjoys a wide range of conversation topics.