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I know there is a lot of MARRIED women on this site pretending to be single, seperated or divorced thinking the grass is greener on the other side... Everyone knows that but has anyone else noticed the amount of women online here on POF doubles during a major sporting event or hockey game? Hmmmmm... Need something to do while the hubby or boyfriend is busy? lol busted!!

To the ladies who are actually single... This is why the guys are playing ya!!

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Onto my about me...

Some people believe if while riding a gondola and kiss under a bridge you will be soul mates for life…

Some people believe kissing from the top of the highest building will make you fall in love…

Some people believe if you toss a penny into a wishing well and make a wish you will find the man or woman of your dreams…

What do I believe?

I believe if two people get along and both put 110% into making the relationship work… It will work and you will have everything listed above!!!

What about your beliefs?


PS: Some people have been asking me what a gondola is. A gondola is a small boat shaped like a canoe mainly found in Italy that has a pilot who thrusts the boat with a long stick and sings. You see them in movies all the time. I hope this helps. lol


I am a 39 year old professional working in the computer industry. I am not looking for a one night stand. I can go to a bar and get that. I want to find Mrs Right, not Mrs Right now! When I do I'll give everything into the relationship.

I am looking for someone who knows what they want in life and how to get there. Someone who isnt afraid to speak their mind and say what is on their mind instead of holding it in until it becomes an issue. I dont care if you have children. I am looking for friendship first that can build into a strong relationship with trust. Someone who once goes exclusive in dating who will not venture down other avenues.

I can be very affectionate and love to cuddle, snuggle, give massages, fall asleep in each others arms, walk down the street holding hands, arms around each other or in each others pockets. Isn't that what a relationship is really all about?

I am very laid back and enjoy simple things in life. I do like to plan and think ahead. I know what I want as a final goal and life is too short to waste your time with false promises. I do have a wild and playful side and once my humour gets going you'll be hurting with laughter.

Please include a photo with your reply. I have pics on my profile and would like to know who I am talking to. No photo, no reply.

Still reading? I'm impressed!

So how come you have not hit the send message button to say hi yet? Shy? No worries, I don't bite... Just nibble. lol

Funny First Dates Seen On Other Profiles:

* first date? lets go to the zoo. this way if I get bored of you the animals will keep me entertained. plus if I FART I can blame the smell on the animals! (female profile)

* i dunno but im not paying unless your putting out

* im too broke to go anywhere

* go to my parents house for dinner (45 year old female)

* toss snowballs at the old people walking in and out of the old folks home.

* get wasted and outrun the cops on the interstate while mooning the tv news helicopter

* hit a strip bar and get some lap dances

* Lets get some liquid Viagara and have a Stiff Drink!!!

Whats your favorite?

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Onto my First Date:

Seems more reserved. lol

1.) Anything where we can talk and be ourselves to get to know each other or cuddle up with a big bowl of popcorn and watch a movie together. Ok save that for our second date.

2.) Maybe a day trip to Niagara Falls and do the "tourist thing" going into all the amusements or cheesy museums and going picture happy.

3.) We could go to Shoppers Drug Mart and grab a box of magnum condoms and ask the cashier if they carry anything bigger just for the expression on her face. lol

4.) The zoo is a great place for a first date, educational, get exercise, lots of conversation and a safe place in case your psycho. lol

5.) Spend the day at Canada's Wonderland.

Anything but a "coffee date". I see tons of people in Timmy's having a coffee date. Lets be original and leave a lasting impression on each other. Coffee dates are the new boring dinner and a movie dates. You just don't bring flowers and a box of chocolates.

So what date interest's you?