Please read my profile before sending a message- thanks:) "Prefer not to say" = no reply from me. I'm single and have never been married. I just haven't met the right guy. I'm looking for someone who has all the good qualities that I possess. Some people think that I am picky, but I prefer to call it "being selective"- not about the external, but the internal quality of a man. I am a well-liked, well-respected, intelligent (university educated RN), honest, straight forward, strong, independent, low maintenance, affectionate, funny, kind and loving person. I tend to be attracted to younger men, though I am not opposed to dating men my own age! Please, NOT my fathers' age! I look and feel much younger than 44. Most people think that I am 10 years younger, and I love that! It's due to good genes and a youthful outlook on life.

I love to: travel, eat different types of foods, spend time with family and friends, watch TV/movies (yes, I watch soaps but also love educational stuff too), see theatre productions, sleep until noon, get massages, watch sports sometimes (usually play-offs or Olympics), laugh, go dancing once in a while, listen to music, shop, and much more.

One of the best things I've done in my life is working with tsunami victims in Indonesia. I was there for a month, and it was an experience I'll never forget!

I do not like: dysfunctional relationships, discrimination, injustice, bad drivers, bad grammar, people with bad manners, people with bad hygiene, people who make noises when they eat (except for moans of pleasure!), or going to the gym (but I do force myself to go). Also, I am not a pet lover.

I am looking for someone from any ethnic and religious background (believing in God is a plus) who is motivated, and leads a healthy lifestyle (no smokers or big drinkers). You must be non-bigoted, and have an appreciation and respect for other cultures and religions. I am looking to meet someone with whom I can have a long-term, exciting, passionate, fulfilling, and committed relationship with. Well, there is much more to know about me, so if you're interested I hope to hear from you.

Please do not contact me if you have entered "prefer not to say" in your profile. What is that all about?? Finally, I feel that there has to be some chemistry... a mutual attraction, before proceeding to another level, and a picture can help with that. So please contact me only if you have a picture, so I can clearly SEE your face... your eyes (not your half naked body parts, and not posing with your car! Material things do not impress me.) If I made the effort to post pictures, so can you. Thank you:)