I want to find someone who I can relate with on an intellectual level. Someone whom I can trust and build a relationship on honesty. Someone who knows how to communicate. Laughter is very important. I can be very silly at times. Life is too short not to laugh. I can be serious, but laughter is such is great for stress. Those couples that last forever are the ones who are can laugh together, be bestfriends and who have good HONEST communication.

I also want to find someone that I have thing in common with. Such as, hiking or walking on the beach. Someone that likes going to the theater, an art show or just listening to live music( especially jazz). Let not start about dancing. I love to dance to all types of music. Hey, great cardio.

well, I believe in continuous education, so doing enjoyable intellectully or culturally stimulating things are a must for me. I love being around friends or family, well I don't have any family out here, so my friends are my family. I am a big movie watcher, so I would enjoy someone who likes going to go see the latest movies, (yes, I like romantic comedies) or we can stay at home and watch are favorite shows. ( that is recorded of TIVO of course).

Overall, my ideal woman would be someone I could connect with intellecually, personally, spiritually and emotionally, but most important thing is being friends first. If your looking just to hook up, been there and done that. I want the real thing from a beautiful woman. I am just tired of all the games, and women play games just as much as men.

I am a giver. I am happiest when I know I have helped someone else or put a smile on someones face. That is why I love coaching kids in baskeball and soccer. I volunteer my time, because I just want to give back. I am a level headed person, so one of my strongest personality traits is the ability to see someone elses problems from their point of view.


Ultimately, I am looking for a LTR, but you can't wish for it. You have to get to know each other and date a little. A Relationship just has to happen. I would like it sooner than later, but it is out of our control. I am a romatic guy, so i hope you are as well. Let's just meet or talk, and we can take it one day at a time.

First dated are meant to see if their is chemesty, right? Let's meet somewhere, i'll by you dinner and we can talk. Hey, nothing wrong with a free meal right?