why do women not make first contact?? a lot of games played here, if your serious contact me, it not an ego thing, it just that i am looking for something real, friendship to long term

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are there any real women out there that dont play games, looking for someone real, will travel or relocate for love, just been played, but i still believe that there is a good woman out there for me
I am not perfect, and I am not looking for perfect either, just a nice woman, age race, weight, not a problem





I am looking for friends first
that 75 kms option is a killer, i would go much further
"Live as if you 'll live forever;live as if you'll die tomorrow'... J. DEAN,(thanks 'A)
I do not live in a box, i am open to all possibilities
considering a transfer to the GTA, or Montreal/Ottawa
MY IM DOES NOT ALWAYS WORK


what I am looking for is a woman that is intelligent, kind, generous, and is friendly, oh, and one that is open minded adventurous, and doesn't have to get high to have fun, somebody that not into drama,who want to have a happy stable life.
a woman that wants a 50 50 partner, who loves to travel, and likes the finer things in life, having a wild side,and a sense of humor is a plus.im not looking for a saint, but rather a woman that really would appreciate someone who can love with all his heart , im not really expecting anything, but i am open to anything, friendship, long term,love.
that being said,mutual respect,compatibility,maturity, and and friendship are all great, yes men and women can just be friends
ME;
IM A KIND, GENEROUS,HONEST, MAN
IAM A HARD WORKER, LOVE LIFE, LOYAL TO A FAULT
I HAVE DONE A LOT WITH MY LIFE, IVE TRAVELED , 36 COUNTRIES ON 4 CONTINENTS
I STILL WANT A LOT FROM LIFE, I WOULD LOVE TO START BY HAVING FUN
I HAVE MANY PASSIONS, ART,COOKING, FILM, THEATRE,I ALSO HAVE A WILD SIDE
I DON'T DRINK OR DO DRUGS, AND REALLY DISLIKE PEOPLE WHO ARE DEPENDENT ON THEM TO HAVE FUN,
I AM A VERY PASSIONATE PERSON, ALSO VERY RESPECTFUL OF OTHERS

SO IF YOUR HONEST, MELLOW AND OPEN, LETS CHAT, YOU NEVER KNOW!
NOTE: i do have baggage, but its all packed and the airport lost it LOL

apparently i am not at all attractive, i have only rated a 3, that quazimotto status lol i will probably be single for the rest of my life, im going into a fetal position now,only a 3, is there anyone out there that thinks im a 10...8...7...how humiliating..lol well there's all ways chocolate and ice cream, AT LEAST NOW I KNOW WHO TO CONTACT LOL
MY IM IS NOT WORKING
i feel it important to add,i am looking for a beautiful woman, age race or weight have nothing to do with who and what i am looking for.

my im does not work

I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE FRIENDS,AND HAVE FUN, HORSEBACK RIDDING, FINE DINING, MOVIES,DAY TRIPS,WALKS,LIVE MUSIC,LONG CONVERSATIONS,PEOPLE WATCHING, AND LOTS MORE