Hi All!!,
So I'm not sure if I can articulate exactly what I am looking for but here goes:
I am 29 years old and currently live in San Francisco Ca. Most of my family lives in Alabama ( My sister and brother, my 7 nieces and 1 nephew)I and I love them very much. My nieces and nephew are getting older and I really feel I am missing out on being close to them and being an influential part of their lives. So since I have done extensive traveling around the country and had a great time in my 20's, I have decided to move back home, settle down and raise a family close to my loved ones. This is where you come in!! I would love to simple find someone real. Someone who understands day to day life and tries to turn the mundane into the extraordinary. I am a very adventurous person and I have fun with life. I also love kids and have no problem with being with someone who has kids.
I have never really been married (great story) and have no kids of my own. I work in Theater. I love to travel. I have lived all over the country. I love to read. I have been reading Tom Robbins lately, he is very funny. I also play the guitar and I love to hike and camp. I am a movie buff. My music taste is very diverse but I love 90s rock, Paul Simon and Pink Floyd to put it in a nutshell. I love meaningful conversation and long walks on the beach(isnt that what they all say!!) I am a romantic and know true love exist.
What I am proposing here is quite a romantic situation if its pulled off right. I am moving home in April at the latest, so what I am think about is an email/phone relationship for the next couple months. We could build up the relationship with words and thought, have long conversation about nothing and everything. Fall in love with mind and soul(I know I'm an optimist), before we let our bodies take over. The sad thing is I am from the hookup generation and I feel romance is not so common anymore. People kinda just get together with out getting to know each other really and it ends in agony. I've been down that road and have taken some lessons from it. I know, I know, its a little old fashioned of an idea but I think if its executed right it could be something beautiful. Just a side note, at least you know I'm not looking to just hook up or whatever, I am being genuine!!

Good Luck!!

Rob


Say, my love, i came to you with best intentions
You laid down and gave to me just what i'm seeking
Love, you drive me to distraction
Hey my love do you believe that we might last a thousand years
Or more if not for this,
Our flesh and blood
It ties you and me right up
Tie me down
Celebrate we will
Because life is short but sweet for certain
We're climbing two by two
To be sure these days continue
These things we cannot change
Hey, my love, you came to me like wine comes to this mouth
Grown tired of water all the time
You quench my heart and love,you quench my mind
Celebrate we will
Because life is short but
Sweet for certain
We're climbing two by two
To be sure these days continue
The things we cannot
Celebrate, you and me, climbing two by two, to be sure
These days continue, things we cannot change
Oh, my love i came to you
With best intentions
You laid down and gave to me
Just what i'm seeking
Celebrate we will
Because life is short
But sweet for certain
We're climbing two by two
To be sure these days continue
Things we cannot change...
Things we cannot change

-Dave Matthews Band

I would go wherever we could talk and get to know each other. No movies, maybe bowling or a nice dinner and ice cream.