Looking for great conversation, great sparkle, great intelligence & wit, an interest in the world, and someone who's realistic about life while at the same time interested in talking about the world and understanding it.

I'm looking for someone a little cynical, well read, and interested in literature and the arts.

Nice to haves:

Interest in fitness.
Interest in relaxing with good food and wine, and movies sometimes.
Good sleep habits (asleep at night, awake during the day...)
Upbeat, happiness, good cheer.

Where I come down on the issue of children:
I'm not always a "kid friendly" guy, but some kids are different..
If you're thinking about kids and we are a very strong match, I'd consider it...

What you get:

Fierce Loyalty, romance, conversation,friendship, great adventures, great food, good wine, good music.. good life!

First dates exist to establish the possibility of second dates! I like coffee and conversation, or maybe wine and conversation. Then we decide if there will be a second date!
Second dates should be a great meal with conversation, a nice walk in the neighborhood.
Third date I'll cook for you. ;-)