Spur of the moment, with no expectations, I packed up and moved from Rural Michigan, to Northern California. I'd like to say that's how I live my life, spontaneous and wild, but I do like stability.

I (like most people I'm sure) find it extremely hard to describe myself in a constructive fashion in one of these little boxes. But I have to give it a shot.

I'm not femme, I'm not butch, I'm just little me in between the lines. Jeans and a cute shirt, hair to my waist, blue eyes and glasses I'm planning to never get rid of. I'm looking for a woman that's somewhat like myself. Too femme and I wonder how well we'd get along, considering I'm not that into fashion, too butch and I wonder how well we'd get along, considering I'm not that into sports. I like all kinds of girls though, and prefer ones with a little weight on them. I'd rather have a Rubenesque goddess than one with no curves. That doesn't mean you have to be chesty though, I find small breasts to be incredibly cute.

I consider myself to be somewhat smart, pretty funny, and very kind. I'm a big girl myself, and I have very little apologies for that. I love animals, and volunteer at a homeless cat shelter once a week, and have a cat of my own. I like to go out and do things, but not necessarily always. Sitting at home with take-out or home-cooked food can be just as good as going out to dinner.

I believe in complete honesty, if I have something on my mind, I'm likely to say it, and I keep no secrets from my friends and romantic partners. I may like to play video games, board games, roleplaying games, and the rest, but playing games with relationships is not my style.

I'm affectionate, and am really looking for someone the same, someone who likes to hold hands when we walk together, cuddle a lot, and do cute romantic things like go to the park to sit in the grass together and just hang out, or watch fireworks on the beach on the fourth of July.

That being said, seeing as I'm so new to the area (only been here a few months now) I'm open to just making friends too. However I want nothing to do with "intimate encounters" yuck! Not to say I'm a prude, but I do not find sex to be an interesting or enjoyable activity unless there's love involved.

I'm somewhat shy, and somewhat indecisive, I don't mind going out for coffee, but if you wanted to plan what we were going to do (taking my likes and dislikes into account, of course) I would be very happy with that. I like to go along for the ride, so to speak.