I can't believe i have to say this out loud, If you are separated, getting a divorce, living with someone: "please stop reading now and move on" (It's also unfortunate I have to say "I don't care if you have a "serious member" yellow dot, and you still are not divorced). If you have sent a naked picture (of you or some other woman) your message will be deleted immediately. If you think I am that shallow, then YOU are that shallow, again, "please move on".

All others are welcome

Life is too short. I tend to enjoy the little things in life, the outburst of laughter, smiles on peoples faces, nature's wonders, a well written book, a great movie, making something with my hands, giving that something to someone. Sharing all of this with someone doubles the rewards.


All too often the 3 words "I love you" are so abused that it sickens me. These are reverent words, important words, not intended for every day language such as "Hello" or "Hi" and I don't need to be told "I love you" every 10 minutes. People who do this tend to be trying to convince them self, not me. "I love you" should be moments that warrant it, should be meant when said and carry the same depth and feeling as the words define.

Some Things I Like:(not in any order)
Darts/Dart league
Playing Pool
Listening to music (just about all kinds except acid or punk)
Creating (be it digital art, web sites, woodworking, metal working, building things, etc)
A good movie
Children laughing and playing
Cooking
Rain on a tin roof and distant thunder
Festivals
A note in my lunch from someone that cares
A Challenge
a drive to nowhere particular, just to enjoy the drive
Going to Home Depot
A night out on the town
Riding Motorcycles
The smell of fresh baked Bread and fresh brewed coffee
Holding hands
Spelunking
Board and card games
Playing in the snow
NASCAR
Sharing all there is to share in life with someone
(and more)

Oh, if you did your best to get your boobs into your picture thinking it will help, you are trying too hard with the wrong props. Two reasons, 1) I'm an assman, 2) your shape or equipment plays no part in my being attracted to you.

You can discover more about me if you did a google of "Rocket Flasheart" ( yes it is incorrectly spelled on purpose) or find my place on the net by googling "The Dragon Tail" (a wordpress site). It will show up on the first page of results.

When do we eat?

Dating is a discovery process, about the other person. I don't judge anyone upon first meeting them nor do I want that in return.

I base nothing on looks or age, there is no value in age or looks to me. How you feel about yourself, is all that matters.

Not a movie (great for other times). I would like to be able to talk and listen to someone for a first date, so doing something quiet is a good starter such as meeting at a bookstore, quiet cafe, museum or science center, etc.